Girls, will you please answer this question?

Question

Okay, this question has 2 parts:
How many of you girls despise anal sex, or have had bad experiences receiving it? And if you don't like it pleasetell me why

For those of you girls who like it , aand enjoy it please tell me why you do, and if you don't mind share one of your experiences, either in the question, or send me an email. My girlfriend says she's open to things, but I kinda wanna ask you girls, so I can see if women actually like it, and the shared experiences will help give me ideas on how to approach it.

This is a serious question, so please be nice about it.

for those of you who didnt get this (like drae313) I didnt ask my gf. She's a really shy person, so I wanted to see how many girls like it before I make her uncomfortable. Because if I ask she'll know I want to, and if she's not into it, she'll feel bad, and I don't want to hurt her feelings, so THATS why I asked you girls first. I'm trying to be considerate.

And thank you to all of you who arent negative.

Answer 1

Well, from being a girl, I can say that most girls have mixed feelings about it.. I know that with my experiences.. I have had a few and I have had mixed feelings about it.. It really all depends on the guy and how easy and gentle it is done.. I have had guys that didn't use enough lubrication and it hurt like a *****.. then there is my current boyfriend and I don't have a problem at all doing anal with him, actually it's enjoyable and I don't mind it like I used to.. It is the fact that I know he wouldn't hurt me and I tell him if it feels uncomfortable.. If you are planning on doing it with your girlfriend, make sure she is relaxed and comfortable and ask questions to make sure that she doesn't feel like it's hurting or anything like that.. Make sure you use a lot of lube and go slow!!

Answer 2

i am an open person sexually. i will try anything once, twice if i like it. but anal sex is soooooooo not for me. it is the single most uncomfortable sexual experiences i have ever had. granted i was young when i tried it(17) and the guy was older and way too eager so maybe that why it was so horrific but i have not been able to successfully do it since. many guys have tried but i cant bring myself to give in. i really cant understand what the fascination is with it, i swear. but on other hand many of my female find it enjoyable. so it depends on the female.

Answer 3

Personally, I find it distasteful because 1. The rectum is not a sex organ and 2. Anal sex affords the possiblity of spreading coliform bacteria from the rectum and colon to the reproductive system of anyone who enters someone's anus. 3. The smell of the anus is usually, unpleasant and 4. The muscles of the anal sphincter are not supposed to be stretched the same way a vagina is stretched. That can result in lasting damage to these muscles and fecal incontinence. 5. To the Judeo-Christian, the bible calls "anal sex" "sodomy" and God considered it to be an abomination in the book of Leviticus. Finally, 6. Men who prefer the tightness of "anal intercourse" seldom willingly, go back to vaginal intercourse without persistent chiding from the female involved. It makes the man lazy in other modes of sexual performance. It could, thereby, lead to a man preferring sex with other males. This answer is truthful and very serious.

Answer 4

Ok, I do not like receiving anal sex. It hurts! And it makes me feel uncomfortable, and I just plainly don't like it.

Answer 5

my hubby wanted to try I said we can try, but ouch! So we stopped..yeah wont try that one again...
The question is does ur gf want to try it? It's gonna be different for everyone. So if she is willin and you r willing to do it, just try and if it hurts her too bad or u 2 arent comfy with it, then stop!
have a good night!!

Answer 6

It hurts, but I love my boyfriend so I want to please him. You have to sacrifice for love. I told him many times already. He knows that I don't like it. But many times he sacrifice for me also. So it depends. You have a good girlfriend who allows you to do it. Make sure you take good care of her. Bye!

Answer 7

im curious about it because the porn girls seem to enjoy it but ive never done it too affraid something migh go wrong down there if i did

Answer 8

Make sure you let her know that she won't be able to walk or sh*t right for a week, then see if she will be open to it

Answer 9

I don't kiss and tell.. And I DoNot like it. So why don't you come up w/ a better form or way of asking.

Answer 10

well u know i like it kinda hard i like the dic up my puss in all its alrite just make sure and use condoms or get her pregnent in winter when theres not much to do