Do women like anal sex?Does it really give them pleasure?I ask this because my girlfriend is willing to let me try it on her,but I am not sure because I don't want to hurt her.If it gives no pleasure to her what's the point on doing it?Any Tips would be welcome.Answer women only no freaks please.
2006-08-25 15:22:04 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't
2006-08-25 15:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've tried it, and it's given her pleasure and she tells you she likes it, well you'll have you answer - at least, from her. Likewise, if she says it doesn't do anything for her. Same thing.
Oh, and if anal /doesn't/ do it for her, stop. Don't force her to do it if she isn't comfortable. Simple as that. If she refuses consent for anal, it becomes sodomy, and you don't want to get done for anal rape. That's the only legal warning you're ever going to hear from me, but someone has to give it at some point.
Hey, and while I'm sounding like the Bad Parent here, protection is paramount to avoid sexually transmitted infections. Just because she'll not get pregnant from rear entry sex doesn't mean there aren't all those other nasty, grungy dangers to riding bareback. And those nasty, grungy dangers can /kill/ you, so play safe.
But it's like all other forms of sexual expression, from the use of sex toys, ointments, oral or manual pleasuring, menages a trois, roleplay, BDSM and so on: /everything/ is subject to each individual's personal tastes, and if you look around, /everything/ is permissible to /someone/, /somewhere/.
2006-08-25 15:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by fiat_knox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I thought because of mens prostate glands being located somewhere behind the anal passage that it was they that got the most pleasure from anal sex... I really dont know what is being stimulated when a women is being rogered, is she getting off on giving pleasure to her man... dont know really but if your woman is willingly doing this and not becoz u r pressuring her then go for it... try something new... take it slowly and use losts of lube.. good luck
2006-08-25 15:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by darthmawler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was not really sure of anal sex at first, but after trying it (the first time or two are a little awkward) it really is very erotic and stimulating! Be gentle and take it very slow with your girl, use plenty of lubrication, communicate and get her to relax the anal muscles. Be ready, you never have felt something so tight!! Good Luck.
2006-08-25 15:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by nascarhorselover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is willing to try it with you then go ahead but it really hurts the first time. I personally do not like it. It feels like you are taking a sh*it over and over again. That is not sexually arousing to me but you never know. There are many women who enjoy anal sex. Your girlfriend maybe one.
2006-08-25 15:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple answer to that is try it at least twice with your girlfriend. As i tried it with my ex a couple of years ago and WE both loved it, and it makes you closer trying things for the first time with each other even if you dont keep doing it. the thing is the they say you anus is also a g spot even in men believe it or not and that its good so it depends if this penertrates your girlfriend and if mentally you can enjoy it. but i do recommend try i mean i dont do it no more as it is really intense but i do like it some times as intense is good in sex sometimes... as we all can agree. the ony way she will enjoy it though is if she feels fully 100% relaxed with you try a little drink first for the first time as it can be a little bit painful the first time till you get use to it good luck and dont listen to silly peoples rude gestures and critisum as most likely they just sad and dont have a sex life or fun in their relationship if your young learn and experiment thats what i say
2006-08-25 15:30:42 · answer #6 · answered by MissTee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No freaks?
Did you read your question?
Anyway, freaks aside, I doubt a girl could get any pleasure out of anal sex except the knowledge she is making you happy.
If you have to be made happy in such a way, perhaps you should dig deeper.
ho ho.
2006-08-25 15:31:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like it now and then if it's done right. use lots of lube, i prefer astroglide. and start off slow, get her totally aroused and be gently caressing her a** and and getting her relaxed back there and used to the idea of you being back there. then try starting with a finger then 2 maybe even to 3 then stick in your pepe. pay attention to how she is reacting if she seems in pain, then put on more lube. and keep going slow. if she's into it you'll know. i'm used to it and i like it a little rough sometimes or even my a** slapped and hair pulled, so if she's into that kind of stuff go for it!
good luck and be safe!
2006-08-25 15:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it you who asked the same question a few days ago?Well if you know she is up for it do it, she wants to know whats it all about.At least for me I don't like it because it hurts, but other wemon find pleasure from it.Try it who knows she might be one of the lucky ones.
2006-08-25 15:27:22 · answer #9 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I let my ex try it and really wish I didn't it bloody hurt. I wish I never bothered cause once I let him do it once he kept on wanting it then. Don't do it to her, It will hurt her. I can cause all sorts of problems as well. I didn't go to the toilet for 3 days as it was so painful to even sit down let alone go to loo. She will bleed as well, DONT DO IT.
2006-08-25 20:38:24 · answer #10 · answered by claire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some do and some don't - like with anything. if she is willing, make sure you take it easy at first because there will be tearing and bleeding. she really doesn't need fecal matter in any open wounds. use a condom and lubrication as well. have fun.
2006-08-25 15:28:02 · answer #11 · answered by feisty_wun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋