My guy has been at school for preseason and now that I am here he doesn't really want anything to do with me he is more interested in spending his time with his sports buddies then spending time with me. We haven't seen one another in over three months because of summer break. Can any one answer this question?
2006-08-25 15:17:54 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
His interest in you needs to be evaluated. Leave him alone for awhile and if he does not contact you then he has no interest. If he does then you know he is thinking of you. Now if you are calling him often he does not have to think about you cause you are making yourself part of his thoughts.
Out of sight out of mind but if you love someone they will always be in your thoughts.
2006-08-25 15:31:08 · answer #1 · answered by flopper72 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to find other things to do. Don't just sit around waiting on a guy. Don't get me wrong--guys can be great. But some guys really can't focus on more than one thing at a time. He wants to do his sports, let him. You go find something else to do. You don't have to break up with him (although I seriously doubt you two are together anyway), but you need to keep yourself busy with other things. Girls who have no lives are dull and end up having unwanted pregnancies and/or STDs.
2006-08-25 15:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by fogofwarcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea he's not really interested in you.No matter how much a guy or girl likes a sport or thing,etc then they'll still make time for the one they care about no matter what.
2006-08-25 15:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
three months is a long time to be apart when you are as young as you two sound like you are.
best to just let him go and do what he want s and you do the same. If he sees you can get along as well or better without him, maybe he will wake up.
2006-08-25 15:22:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His personal preference. Girls and guys being together is not the end all of things. Move on, seems like he has.
And because someone has a boyfried or a girlfriend does not mean they are glued-together and live and breath every moment.
2006-08-25 15:21:43 · answer #5 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 15:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a macho man thing and he may never get over it. However, as he matures he will probably want to spend more time with you.
2006-08-25 15:20:34 · answer #7 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks you like him for sports or he dosent like you get another guy theres lots out there
2006-08-25 15:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are sometimes inconsiderate find u some thing to do and treat him the same way n watch and see dont he come around to seeing how u feel.are u could just ask him do he still want a realationship with you are not and share how u feel with him
2006-08-25 15:21:39 · answer #9 · answered by ladyrena12 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stupidity!
2006-08-25 15:20:24 · answer #10 · answered by Kewl__Kat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋