This guy is in year 11 and im in yr 9. Hes almost three years older than me. I really like him, and ive got a feeling he may like me too, its just that hes got a girlfriend in his year. I havent tried to break them up or anything because that is just cruel, and then he would just hate me. I know that about 2-3 years isnt a big difference but it is in high school because of kissing etc. Last week, my friends and I (eg his sisters as well ) in yr 9 caught him kissing her. I dont know what to do, I am happy for him because he seems happy with this girl, and I know she is a nice person, but I just feel all this hate for her for some reason. Please help me, I have abdolutley no idea what to do. It doesnt exactley help that the fact that I am not allowed to go out. Please help! any ideas are welcome!
2006-08-25 15:05:26 · 8 answers · asked by dogs_golden 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, golden, this guy is taken. Unless and until he breaks up with his gf, he's off-limits. If you get with him before that happens, he will be cheating on her. And if he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you. Do you want that? I don't think so. So bury yourself in your studies or your extracurriculars for as long as it takes to get over this guy (and you will get over him, no matter what it feels like now). You will find someone else, I promise.
2006-08-25 15:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 00:10:25 · answer #2 · answered by armiso 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe he is too old for u. maybe u should lay off for a lil bit and see what happens. u could be doing something so much more than just worrying of a silly lil boy. trust me, u might see what a asini he is one day
2006-08-25 15:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by sesso*E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya just wait be friends in the daytime its a good start
2006-08-25 15:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait. I know its hard, but what is meant to be will happen.
2006-08-25 15:08:23 · answer #5 · answered by HottieMcPop 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he liked you, he would be dating you instead of her. I say you should move on.
2006-08-25 15:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't feel like reading all that.
2006-08-25 15:12:44 · answer #7 · answered by Ooga Booga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your just way too young for that
2006-08-25 15:11:04 · answer #8 · answered by xsxsxsx36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋