just wondering. :D
2006-08-25 14:20:47 · 64 answers · asked by shelbybabexoxo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Holding hands, and a little lite kissing. No heavy petting or deep throat kissing. Don't listen if he tells you "everybody's doing it" - they aren't. Don't listen when he tells you oral sex isn't sex - it is.
Don't listen when he says petting is OK, he can stop whenever you say - it isn't and he probably can't. Don't believe him when he says you can't get pregnant the first time - you can.
Don't let him talk you into anything that you don't want to do. NO means NO. Period.
You don't want to be a mother at 14, or 15, or 16. You want to be going on dates, and to ball games and to amusement parks and to the prom. You can't do those things with a baby to care for.
Decide what you think is right, and hold that line. You can't undo some things.
And, if I sound like I could be your mother - I could, and then some, but sometimes us "old folks" have learned a few things to be true in our lives.
You have SO many fun activities ahead of you. Set a goal for yourself - college, be a teacher, doctor, lawyer - and don't let anything get between you and that goal.
2006-08-25 14:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by kids and cats 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At thirteen you should not even be worried about how far to go with a guy.
2006-08-25 14:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by housefullofboys3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're wanting to do the grown up thing, then stop and think of all the reasons why it's not a good idea.
At 13 it's hard to believe there is no reason to hurry into sex, but you will wish you'd waited if you go all the way. And years from now you will still be wishing you had waited.
2006-08-25 14:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by sunflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as the space is between your two seats at school, because you haven't learned enough yet from there much less survive a sexual relationship.
This isn't a third world country or the 1800's where kids need to have relationships to survive, so stop trying to make it into one!
2006-08-25 14:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by careercollegestudent69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not even close to be thinking about this question.
Be thirteen. Have fun, and remember that you have a huge future.
2006-08-25 14:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by volleyballchick (cowards block) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a bit of kissing. Nothing more than that. No taking off clothes. None of the stuff. You're not old enough to handle it.
2006-08-25 14:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thirteen is waaaay too young to think about anyting like sex. kissing and hugging is fine and a good start for atleast 4 years or so. just quit thinking that you have to have sex already.
2006-08-25 14:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by ryan s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
darlin you dont, need to be thing about going anywhere with a boy at your age you should be making mud pies give me a break what happened to morals. if you do anything with this boy you can bet hewill tell everyone and you will regret it for the rest of your life, dont make silly mistakes this early in your life you have years for that
2006-08-25 14:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by sammy11232003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
holding hands, light kissing and hugging. You are too young to be thinking about having sex at such a young age dont let anyone pressure you into something you dont want.
2006-08-25 14:28:27 · answer #9 · answered by twiinsgirl316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking.. you've gone too far or thinking of going too far.
Kissing, Making out... that's far enough.
2006-08-25 14:23:14 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋