If a guy tells you that he doesn't want a girlfriend till the middle of the school year and you know for a fact that he likes someone but you don't know if he likes you is he interested.
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2006-08-25 14:07:59 · 41 answers · asked by Cc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on. Your better than that. Better than waiting around.
2006-08-25 14:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by Poetic Jezebel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
liking someone and having them as a gf is 2 different things...
"...doesn't want a girlfriend till the middle of the school year..."
Maybe he's too busy with other things that he must complete and doesn't have the time right now for a gf.
Bet you don't know him good enough...
A "friend" would know why he SAID he doesn't want a gf right now. So why don't you see if that happens?
2006-08-25 14:18:12 · answer #2 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he pick the middle of the school year? What's wrong with now? If you know for a fact that he likes someone, but you don't know if it's you, then maybe you should give it a chance. Be his friend if you want. As you are friends, try to read his subtle gestures, facial expressions and what he says. Maybe then you will know for sure. Good luck with this!
2006-08-25 14:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No or not now. I am not sure of his class load! If he is completely devoted this semester to scholastic's that may be is #1 priority and he might not feel he has the time it takes to invest in a relationship. Or he could be waiting to see if things work out with someone else, either way if you really like him just be his friend and give him the time. He could be nicely trying to let you know he is not interested. By being a friend you leave the door open to chance.
Good Luck!
2006-08-25 14:12:49 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough.
Is the object of interest available, or telling him she's not interested in a boyfriend right now?
It sounds like he's keeping his options open until he figures out who he's after & if he'll be successful, before he commits to you. It sounds like you're being kept as a back-up.
That's a "shoot for the stars & accept the moon" strategy. Nothing wrong with it, unless you're the moon.
Plenty of fish in the sea, and the year is just starting. You have plenty of options open yourself!
Best wishes!
2006-08-25 14:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by cpi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love the way you guys try to find exact answers to such questions.
The fact is that in school often guys can't figure out who they really like so they fall for the young lady who happens to smile at them when they happen to be thinking about finding a girl friend.
2006-08-25 14:10:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 00:07:14 · answer #7 · answered by armiso 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask the question, then answer is.... NO, he is not that interested in you. When a guy falls for a girl, there is no question about his interest. You just know it by his actions. I think telling you that he didn't want a girlfriend is definitely a negative action. Your ship should sail, honey. LOL. ;-)
2006-08-25 14:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by Sugar_Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably has his eye on someone else, and wants until the middle of the school year to try for her. Give him some space, but do not disappear!
2006-08-25 14:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by Jimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like many women and I do not have a girlfriend because I am lazy and don't want the drama. So him liking someone does not mean he wants a girlfriend. And yes he is interested, your a female, he is interested.
2006-08-25 14:12:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take what he says for face value. Guys are usually not this direct with expressing what they want or don't want.
If I were you, I would not waste time trying to determine if he likes you or not.
Whoever he does like, he will not hesitate to let that person know when "he" believes the time is right.
2006-08-25 14:15:13 · answer #11 · answered by anosey1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋