i mean does it kinda freak men out when a woman cries? like you dont know what to do? would you rather just not be around her at that time?
2006-08-25 14:03:07 · 13 answers · asked by michelle 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it's like when a baby cries, guys really don't know what to do to help the baby, same thing with girls. I mean we can understand why you are crying, but most of the time we are clueless as to how to help you. It's not that you shouldn't cry around your boyfriend, it's just that most of the time he will panic and not know what to do. I mean some guys are calm and are able to help their girlfriend out. So honestly don't take it as an offense. We don't want to make it any worse then it already is. I mean if my girlfriend cried, I would try to stay calm and figure out what happened. I've been around girls that cry alot, so I'm actually extremely used to it. And well my face has the effect to make girls cry. On a few occasions I've had them scream "how can one guy be so ugly". But well I'm the kind of guy that likes to hang around girls though. I don't know why, but that's always how it's been for me. So well I've helped alot of my friends out when they started to cry. I mean you just have to make sure your boyfriend knows what to do. I am confident that I will be able to help my girlfriend regardless of her crying or not. So well just talk to your boyfriend and see what causes him to panic.
2006-08-25 14:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by Khalil S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
comfort herbeen around in life differnt cities and comforted manymy shoulder is wet with the tears opf many who just wanted to be held or talked to and that is all so i did and we were good friends before and after no love or sex just consoling and they cried on my shoulder and said thanks i believe that if a woman hurts then she needs to be told it's ok i understand and if she cries rhen so be it my shoulder is big and the water runs free and will not melt them by any means
2006-08-25 21:28:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never know what to do or say. Of course that applies to anyone for me. Never been one that crys so no idea how to react.
2006-08-25 21:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by hoddin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just hold my wife and let her cry. When she is finished, I ask her if there is anything I can do to help her feel better. Seems to work for her....
2006-08-25 21:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by joeyamas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold her, cuddle her, do my best to comfort her... don't act like I can solve all the problems for her, and try to help her.. and, probably, cry with her..
2006-08-25 21:10:19 · answer #5 · answered by chuckufarley2a 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would go to her and try and help her if i could it worries me to see a lady cry.freaking out well i dont know. Now if she told me to leave and it made her fell better iwould but i would not be vry happy then
2006-08-25 21:19:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I cry, he just pats me on the back or holds me and allows me cry.
2006-08-25 21:08:11 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you could ask your self would you want a hug are someone to run from you if you was crying
2006-08-25 21:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by marshall_blake2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just chuck her on the shoulder and tell her to chipper up, skipper!
2006-08-25 21:07:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
straight away she would be in my arms.no ?s asked.my girl comes 1st no matter wot
2006-08-25 21:16:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋