Im not that good looking, im overweight, and i've tried to diet and excersize, and people say i've changed a bit. I am pretty hairy, and people say i have to shave every day, which I do everyday...
There's this girl I like and its like the first time I liked someone... and it's killing me!!! WOuld I freak her out If wen to her and asked her out? I feel like she's out of my league, I've never said a word to her, or ever heard her voice! I'm not sure why I like her... Everytime i see her i feel like ill get a heart attack!! I'd do anything for her!! Would it freak her out If I told her how much I liked her? She's in the Orchestra like me, she plays the Cello and I play the Violin! should I change to the Cello so she can notice me? thnx for any help!
2006-08-25 13:48:22 · 8 answers · asked by indianguy314 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a firm believer in that beauty is only skin deep. And what attracts one person may not attract another.
If you are a nice guy, polite, caring, considerate of others, then those are the qualities one should be looking for, along with integrity, honesty, and communication.
Instead of asking her out the first time you talk to her why don't you just go up to her and try to strike up a conversation? See how she responds to you during this conversation. That will tell you whether or not you should ask her out.
I hate to see nice guys crapped on by girls just because of their looks. They would be a lot happier if they choose inner beauty over physical beauty.
Good luck to you and NO do not switch instruments over a girl, play the instrument that YOU enjoy and that you are good at. Girls will come and go, never compromise who you are and what you believe in for anyone.
2006-08-25 14:02:51 · answer #1 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Shave every day or twice a day, make sure you always shower and are clean. Wear comfortable but nice clothes. No slops!
Keep up with the diet and exercise for health reasons.
Talk to her casually and see what kind of feeling you get from her. Maybe ask her to grab a snack/drink after practice with some friends. Start slow since you have insecure issues. Build up your self esteem and self worth. Don't change to cello unless it is what you want. Sax players are sexy!
2006-08-25 20:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Orchestra love, how romantic, I used to play the viola. But anyway, I would say go for it, that's brave. If she rejects you, it's OK. We all get rejected and there will be plenty of people after her that you will have feelings for. Have confidence in yourself and be respectful and just keep calm. If she backfires on you or makes fun of you, you wouldn't want someone like that anyway.
2006-08-25 21:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first, do NOT change instrument just to please her, that's the worst plan ever, just be cool, when she drops something pick it up, yknow, beeee cool, do NOT ask her out now, she'll be like waaa? I don't even know you. And really it doesnt matter how fat and/or hairy you are, if you ask her straight away she'll prooobably be like ew get away from me. heck she'd probably do the same thing if the george clooney of your school went up to her and asked her out without knowing her. if you want to be close to her, you could become her friend, but believe me, from experience youll never become her boy friend if you become her good friend first. build a flirty relationship. and dont use cheesy pick up lines...and dont do anything stupid or extreme, like, ahem changing instruments
2006-08-25 21:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by bar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her you like her right away. Just glance at her and see if she glances back. But not too often, you'll look obssessed! If she looks away right away, she's not interested, if she looks back at you, you might have a chance.
Don't focus on your negative traits by the way...
2006-08-25 20:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by CC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she fat and ugly too? If she is then you'll be fine. If she's not, then you'd better have some money and then she might go out with you. Stick to your league and don't believe Hollywood stories about Beauty and The Beast; but you might just be that one in a million.
2006-08-25 20:55:47 · answer #6 · answered by eskimo 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Be yourself and be confident. The worst she can say is no. Go for it! Good luck.
2006-08-25 20:51:27 · answer #7 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't move too fast, you'll scare her off. chat her up, get to know each other, be friends first. show her she can trust you and you are likeable.
2006-08-25 21:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋