When your girlfriend asks you questions about your ex or other girls, things like that...does it make you think your girlfriend is insecure? I'm not asking my man too much, I'm not obssessing. I just want to know about his past and things like that...Maybe I'm coming across as jealous or insecure. What does that tell you when a girl asks you those kinda questions?
2006-08-25 13:15:15 · 13 answers · asked by CC 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My girlfriend does the same to me as well. I don't mind it as long as she doesn't bug me about it. I think it's all part of a relationship. I'm not gonna lie either, I've done the same to her as well. But the key is I've only asked her once and not all the time. The more you ask about his past, the more you come across as jealous or insecure. Knowing about each other and his/her past is all part of a beginning and growing relationship. So in other words, ask him! Just don't over do it by continuously asking him when you already know...
2006-08-25 13:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by T_Boy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have been with my wife about 3 years, married for about 2.
That's a short time and as we are both about 30, I'm 36 and Ruth is 27, we have obviously had a life before.
It's cool to ask each other about ex boyfriends/girlfriends, just don't build them up too much.
Example : I had an outstanding sex life with my ex, but my wife don't know that, I've simply been making ours better.
Don't ask too much luv.
2006-08-25 22:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I wouldn't care. I wouldn't talk bad about my exes. I don't want to give any hint that I am hostile or I am not over them yet. Usually I avoid these questions. Isn't it supposed to be about me and the new girlfriend? LOL
2006-08-25 20:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I like the girl I would have no problem telling her about my ex. But if I knew she'll get jelous I wouldn't talk about the past.
2006-08-25 20:20:22 · answer #4 · answered by Ian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Makes me very uncomfortable. I don't want to talk about other girls when I am with you. The reason what we would be together is becuase I want to be with you, not someone else so don't ask me about other girls. I also don't want to hear about guys you dated. If I can't hold your interest enough, you should politely leave..
2006-08-25 21:01:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to tell her about all the girls I been with so she know that I know that she doesn't ahve the only vagina in the world.
It's a good reality exercise for her - keeps the biatch in line.
2006-08-25 20:17:48 · answer #6 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your coming across as too jealous. And being like an interigator...So, knock it off. As I wouldn't ask who you have been with and such.
2006-08-25 20:17:36 · answer #7 · answered by Silverstang 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's a valid concern for health reasons and should be addressed by both parties.
2006-08-25 20:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by heynow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What girlfriend? Not familiar with such a thing.
2006-08-25 20:18:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you really need to ask him a lot of questions. you need to know his past, how many women he has impregnated, etc...
2006-08-25 20:19:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋