I met a girl and we went out for a drink it was me her and her friends, during the date we got on pretty well and did a bit of flirting, the only thing is as she was with her friends i had to mingle and leave her to do the same at points. At the end of the night i told her to phone me to let me knwo she got back ok, by this time i had a few drinks and when she phoned me she told me she thought i was good looking and charming i told her that i thought the same as her, anyway we have been emailing talking on the phone all week and were sup to meet yesterday but she had to bail due to work stuff! I got into work this morning prepared to forget it but she had already emailed me apologising as the day went on she told me that she had a date tonight!! Have i misread the signals and she only wants to be friends is she playin hard to get or is she toying with with me for some weird reason?? GOD DAMN THAT WAS A LONG Q!!!
2006-08-25 12:50:14 · 25 answers · asked by bishbashbosh11 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just to clarify, I am not expecting it to be serious after one date!! Just want to make sure i am not wasting my time trying to be more than friends as we got on really well and would be just as happy to be mates!!
2006-08-25 13:04:53 · update #1
Oh yeah she is T Total i was the only one drinking!
2006-08-25 13:06:50 · update #2
she's not into you. sorry, move on.
2006-08-25 12:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe that date was prearranged - and maybe she was drunk when she said on the phone you were charming and good-looking. What kind of conversations have you been having? A woman can usually tell when a man fancies her and responds accordingly. If she wasn't interested she wouldn't be talking lots to your or emailing apologies that quickly. I'd suggest asking her once more to go for a drink, if she turns you down or agrees then bails out again then you'll know for sure she isn't interested. Or you could bite the bullet and tell her straight how you feel and see what she says. If she fobs you off, she's not interested in you that way but maybe as a friend.
2006-08-25 19:59:03 · answer #2 · answered by puzzledfemale! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This girl is definitely interested in you. Don't worry about it. The reason she said she had a date was to make you jealous, some girls do that. We do this to see what kind of reaction we get, and because we want you to know that we are attractive to other men, which is supposed to make you want us more. Plus, since you guys aren"t even seeing each other yet or anything, it's not like she's betraying you. She's either trying to make you a little bit jealous or checking out her other options.
So just see how things go. For sure ask her out. But beware, she might be the type that needs a lot of attention and she might be the kind of girl that plays mind games.
Hope it works out for you!
2006-08-25 19:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by CC 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that it's worth another try with this girl, 'maybe' she's hard to get! maybe she's trying to get some attention. Anyways, i say, give her another chance, and ask her out again in a nice date as u'll make sure that it suits u both very well. If she didn't came after giving u her word, then she has to be toying and wasting ur time. GOOD LUCK! :)
2006-08-25 19:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by Hendrix_lover 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude - don't be a p*ssy - you can still bang this chick - you just gotta remember the wya it should go down:
1. Call her one time
2. If she calls back, take her out on a weekday only
3. Let her know you expect sex by the 3rd date
4. Don't spend more than $40 on a date
5. Bang her
6. Leave her
7. Move on to the next chick
8. Repeat steps 1 - 7
2006-08-25 19:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you guys just met, not like shes your girlfriend or your dating. Shes being open with you, she has a life. Dont give up yet, however, if your that concerned after one meeting that shes going on a date, its you Id be worried about. Back off, continue communicating, see what happens.
2006-08-25 19:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is interested in you - but she might not be real sure you are the right person she wants to be solo with just yet. At least she was honest and told you she had a date - that more than most people do.
2006-08-25 19:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't look into it too much........she might've made other plans before you to started talking.......or maybe she just thought that you to was just friends and not something more than that and she just innocently misread the signals you were giving her....I just hope that she wasn't too drunk when she told you you were good looking and charming........ask her out on a date again so that you can have a better feel on how she really feels about you......if you are meant to be with her it will happen....just be patient.
2006-08-25 20:07:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she found someone more interesting......she had plans with you, cancelled, waited to tell you, this all says to me she would date you until she found someone better, You don't need a girl like that, forget her. Don't mean to sound negative, but the girl can't make up her mind, and is a player. She would probably end up lying to you and you'd get hurt.
2006-08-25 20:01:14 · answer #9 · answered by Squirrley Temple 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your thinking about a date ! not a commitment . maybe she had this date for awhile , give her a break don't get so serious so fast , get to know each other better before you start expecting her to be yours alone . ask her out again !
and whatever you do DONT listen to DRsteve362005 above , hes very uneducated for a doctor ,even his mama aint admitting hes hers!!
2006-08-25 19:58:19 · answer #10 · answered by porcelain65711 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's quite wierd. My first reaction is that she does like you and might be messing with your head - perhaps trying to make you a wee bit jealous.
I'm ashamed to admit that I played games like that with guys when I was younger - didn't usually work though. Just pis*ed them off.
2006-08-25 19:58:22 · answer #11 · answered by Hello Dave 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋