My husband who I met over the internet 9 months ago will be coming to the US next month. The problem is I have met this man and I am falling in love with him. He is married also and he says he doesn't want to abandon his wife who is mentally ill. I have met her and know this to be true.
This is the short of it. What do I do with this feeling? Do I abandon my husband or stay with him even though?
2006-08-25 12:46:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He loves me too but feels he has an obligation to this woman.
2006-08-25 12:47:21 · update #1
Well what I think is not important or anyone else who answers this question. My advise to you is to think SERIOUSLY about what you want to do. No one can predict what someone's future will be if they are with another. Just wait and be patient and protect yourself.
2006-08-25 12:58:48 · answer #1 · answered by NaijaPrincess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just thnk of it this way, if he is your husband, which legally he can't be if he is married, but he comes home to you. If he is leaving his wife for you, of even planning on consumating your marriage with a married man, just remember, he will do the same thing to you. He will find someone he thinks is better and harry her to, then forget about you. Get out while you can!!!
2006-08-25 19:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by crushedlover 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well Do What's Your Heart Tell You Too But Love Is a Gift Respect It
2006-08-25 19:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by No.1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your man is coming from China or India, or perhaps Thailand, use extreme caution that you are not a visa ticket. Its an increasing international problem. Dont get burned in this industry. I have friends who have.
2006-08-25 19:50:56 · answer #4 · answered by James S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can u call him ur husband if he is married to someone else no matter what he needs to be with his wife and in the long run u will see he should to i dont think u would want to be labeled as a home wrecker
2006-08-25 19:49:07 · answer #5 · answered by plainsprowlers 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you talking to other men when you are supposed to be in a relationship with your husband?? You are playing with fire and you are going to end up hurt and alone if you don't stop
2006-08-25 19:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by angielynn219 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are confusing, how do you get married to someone you never met.
2006-08-25 19:50:02 · answer #7 · answered by old man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the other man alone- he's married, regardless of their situation, he is still married.
2006-08-25 19:49:58 · answer #8 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do them both, you got enough for 2 men
2006-08-25 19:50:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with your husband, rather than destroying 2 families...
2006-08-25 19:49:20 · answer #10 · answered by (^_^) CHiccaaqui(^_^) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋