I am too focused on building my career. I am scared of relationships and I think they take too much time and dedication, plus I am afraid of depending on a man.
Do I feel this way because even if I have fallen in love thousand of times in my past I haven't found the right one yet?
Are relationships easier when you are with the right person? Or are they hard anyway?
I like being single but I think the reason why I am so scared of sharing my life with someone is because this will demand a lot from me, and sometimes I feel I don't have the time, or that I don't feel capable of being in a relationship.
Do I sound like a man?
2006-08-25 12:46:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For a moment there, I thought I had written the question, lol.
Yes its hard having a relationship, it takes time and energy.
That's not a bad thing, but if you are working on a career, it can take time and effort away from that.
That could be upsetting to you, and make you have to choose one over the other, which is a dilemma for you.
Even if you know this is the right one for you, also something that isn't easy to know. It will still take a lot of work and effort on your part to keep it going.
However, if he is the right one, he will support you in your goals, and help you to achieve them. That would be a true love, one who can cheer you on, when you succeed and comfort you when you fail.
Not easy to find, but well worth the extra work if you do.
I'm sure you aren't alone with your dilemma.
2006-08-25 12:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by johnb693 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think a relationship that YOU want to be in is easier because you're naturally going to want to work to keep the relationship going unless you're not satisfied with it. Relationships do take time but can be very rewarding when you're in the right relationship (someone that makes you want to be a better person).
2006-08-25 19:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by chariot804 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just sound mature and responsible.
There's no rush to find someone.
When you find the right person, it will be easy.
2006-08-25 19:50:20 · answer #3 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No....i respect you
2006-08-25 19:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by Hanniey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-25 19:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by Allyson 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋