I researched about a girl who I have a crush on and found a lot of stuff about her like where she lives and used to live, what her nickname at home is, how many brothers/sisters she has, etc etc.. I asked her her number and gave it to me and we exchange txt messages and it seems that she is kinda interested in me. Will she freak out when she finds out that I researched about her or will she think that I'm so into her that she will feel flattered?
2006-08-25 12:41:41 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But I don't consider myself as a stalker because I don't follow her home, I don't peep at her house, nothing to that extreme. I am just really good in getting information. And it is really easy too having the internet and stuff. I just wanted to know more about her.
2006-08-25 12:51:51 · update #1
STOP STALKING HER
When she answeres the door and has 911 on the other end of the phone...
TAKE A FREAKING HINT!
2006-08-25 12:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by vrrmrrmr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... it kind of depends on the girl... but most girls would think that you're pretty creepy, and then you have NO chance. What you did could be considered stalking, now if you really like this girl, and want to try to get somewhere, don't tell her about that. And make sure you don't slip up and say you know something she's never told you before, you may be able to pull that off a couple of times, but if do too much, she might get suspicious....
2006-08-25 12:48:50 · answer #2 · answered by T.J. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obsessed much? It sounds to me like you are stalking this girl. Researching her? How did you obtain this information? Who did you ask that you could so blatently invade this girl's private life? You may be interested in her but could you not have found this information out during a few dates?
I certainly didn't research my wife's private life when we first met. Sure I was interested in her but any info on aspects of her life was given by her voluntarily.
Mate - you need another line of interest like a hobby that doesn't include researching the private lives of girls.
2006-08-25 12:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anthony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I had no idea you could find stuff like that. Anyway, I think I would be freaked out if a girl found out that sort of stuff about me, it comes across as stalker-ish. I don't see the point of doing that, if she feels comfortable with you she'll tell you those things.
2006-08-25 12:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by musiclover 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most likely she'll think you're a stalker if she finds out! I would if that happened to me. It also would depend on how you got the info, it it were from a friend then no it'd be flattery, but any other source yes I'd consider it stalking.
2006-08-25 12:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by chariot804 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... she might get a little bit freaked, depending on her persinality , she may take it as a compliment or like some of the other girls said, she might have 911 on the phone when you go to her house. If it were me i would prob think that you were stalking me. However thats just me good luck!
2006-08-25 12:53:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK it depends on exactly how you tell her and how you found out I mean she might think that you are a stalker if you tell her how much you know but on the other hand she might think that is romantic but if i were you i would hold off on telling her until I really knew her you know try to Gage how she would react.
2006-08-25 12:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by leespitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she wont be flattered I think you will scare her away.
(um can we say stalker...)
becareful you better just learn about here face to face r when your textingr for all you know all the info could be wrong.Then you would look like an (you fill in the blank)
Best of luck,I wouldnt say anything to her about that until well after you to get to know each other
2006-08-25 12:49:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell her you've done research on her, instead use the things you've learned to strike up conversations, girls like it when guys can talk and be involved in a conversation. And don't try to be too stalkerish, or too obvious because that would make her uncomfortable.
2006-08-25 12:46:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes,you could come off like a possessive stalker.
2006-08-25 12:48:48 · answer #10 · answered by Steve R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋