How do i get it though my boy friends head that i an-it cheating?

Question

my boy friend thinks i am cheating because my sister told me too and soo did my aunt and soo did my best friend T told me too! he says i listen too every thing they say i just hung up on him and he didnt even call me back isnt he such a d*ck head tell me?

Answer 1

girl, if he cannot accept your answers as honest he does not deserve you

he should know you better than that right

but this is not that big of a deal ya'll can get past it!!!

Answer 2

If everyone, your sister, aunt and best friend told you that your boyfriend thinks you are cheating, he probably does think you are cheating. Are you cheating? Your behavior around him might have had a greater influence on his opinion of your honesty in this relationship than anything someone else may have said in his presence. If he has not seen you with someone else himself, and he makes no attempt to hear what you have to say then, he probably is a d*ck head. Time will tell.

Answer 3

If he doesn't believe you then there is a problem in your relationship. Trust is the number one thing in a relationship if you want things to work out. If you have never cheated on him or even giving him reason that you would cheat then I would be upset as well. If he cant' believe you and your not maybe you should just end things as hard as that may be. All I know is that I couldn't be with someone if they didn't believe me and everyone else.

Also why is EVERYONE telling you to cheat on him? Is he a bad guy or something??

Answer 4

This all sounds a bit too dramatic. If you have not given him any reason to think that you are cheating on him, then he should not believe it. You both should be spending more time together and communicating and that way he would know the facts. How does he know that all those people want you to cheat on him? That does not make sense. Is he that bad of a guy?

Answer 5

Yeah he's a d--- head and more, no doubt about it. For whatever reason he's playing you like a musical instrument. And you're pretty much playing the notes. At minimum he's immature and at maximum, he's manipulative and abusive. Let me ask what signs were there that he was that way? There were some if you think about it. You may have considered them cute little signs of his affection for you. You won't get anything through his head so learn to like it or ----- you know what to do. Chances are if you do the second, he'll scream like a stuck pig and promise to change. He won't change.

Answer 6

If he is caught up on you cheating maybe he is hiding something, he could be cheating. If a man go to your family and not to you he is hiding something. And if he get so aggravated about this maybe you need to consider something or someone else. It is hard being in a relationship if your mate think you are cheating. Good Luck

Answer 7

u said "my sister told me too and soo did my aunt and soo did my best friend T told me too!" mwanin u listen 2 them, and cheated, course he would be mad, u cheated , u have no control.

Answer 8

Daddy"s littler girl... what an appropriate name, you get away with a lot of things, maybe he was right and you are cheating, every body tells him the same ...What do you expect him to think??and then you hang up....suspicious..suspicious

Answer 9

You hung up on him, but you are mad at him for not calling you back??? No wonder guys can't figure us out.. girls like you don't make any sense. Call him back if you want to talk to him.

Answer 10

basically, don't do anything that make him think your cheating.......1) the next time someone tells you to cheat tell them off infront of him is better......2) don't hide when talking on the phone...........3) when he asks a question truthfully answer and not be difficult.