this guy i was with awhile back and i have been a lot closer lately. things seemed to be going good. he told me he still loved me and that i meant a lot to him and that he really wanted to be with me. but lately he acts like the suckiest guy ever. I love him more than the world but i told him i cant wait around for him forever. He doesn't get that...and today he was being a jerk and i told him that he should just for get about me and him cuz at this point and by the way he was acting it was never going to happen. All could say was shafted. how immature...i dont kno why i am so in love with him and why he means so much to me but im head over heels and i know i need to move on. I just dont kno if its possible. It was so amazing while he acted like the perfect guy. Now hes so different. Ive tried liking other guys...but no one ever seems to compare to him and im not attracted to anyone cuz all i can think about is him. I need serious help
2006-08-25 12:27:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh my I have so been there done that and you will move on. It's hard because you have giving your heart and soul to this guy and then he just turns around and doesn't really care anymore. You don't understand so it doesn't give you closure which is why your still dreaming of him and you. Which you know will not happen again or shouldn't atleast. I ran into the same problems of not being able to find another guy I like just as much all I could think about was HIM. So I dated more, try to find someone better then him. Someone who treated me the way I wanted to. I'm still looking but hell it took me probally 5 months to be like why did I hang on to him for so long. Why he isn't want I wanted. He didn't make me "that" happy. And from the sounds of it you sound like me just last fall. Girl I know this sucks but even though your still in love with him our you sure it's just not "LUST"? Lust sometimes is hard to tell apart from "LOVE". Because if he really cared for you he wouldn't of treated you that way. He would of wanted to work things out when you said "forget about you and me". When I first read this my first thought was he is acting like the suckiest guy ever because he doesn't love you anymore and he doesn't want to be the bad to guy end it. So he just acts like a jerk to make you do the dirty deed of breaking up. Your the bad guy because he was to chicken to do it. So hun this is a good thing and you will get over this. Just rememeber that there someone out there for us and we won't settle for less then what we want. We want the right guy for US!!! The one who isn't going to be a jerk to us out of the blue. Go get a man who makes you happy but not this one. A new one! Good Luck!
2006-08-25 12:39:16 · answer #1 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 21:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This kind of thing happens in these littel immature teenage relationships.
These are temporary little relationships that are quickly tossed aside when you tire of each other - don't worry about it much honey
2006-08-25 12:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Dr Steve. Just take it one day at a time, you'll start thinking of him less and less. In the meantime, stay super busy and rekindle friendships with your girlfriends
2006-08-25 12:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by designer_bunnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Hang out with your girlfriends and have some fun. Soon he will become just a memory.
2006-08-25 12:38:57 · answer #5 · answered by dionne m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him...he sounds like a big time loser. Every girl deserves a man (not a boy) to treat her like a princesss. Go out and start looking! :D
2006-08-25 12:33:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible you just have to be strong..you will go through tears and heart aches...feeling lonely and feeling like a failer..but you will get over him if you keep yourself busy!!! goodluck
2006-08-25 12:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by liltexas36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a rebound guy. if thaT DOESNT WORK OUT, GET ANOTHER REBOUND GUY. and if that still doesnt work out get a rebound girl!!!!!
2006-08-25 12:30:26 · answer #8 · answered by lovebridgesthegap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋