I'm 14. She's 8. I always lock the door when I do that in my room but I guess this time I forgot to. She didn't knock, she just came in and saw everything. She says that's disgusting and never wants to speak to me ever again. I don't want my sister to never speak to me ever again. How can I explain to her that what she saw might look gross but is normal, and every guy does it, and she will be doing it too before much longer, and she needs to knock before entering someone's room?
2006-08-25 12:26:56 · 15 answers · asked by anonymous dude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just act like nothing happened. She'll forget about it. If she brings it up, act surprised
2006-08-25 12:33:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Treat her like an adult. Sit down with her and explain that it's part of growing up. Tell her that it's okay to feel unsure about what she saw because what she saw is supposed to be private but that she should not feel uncomfortable about it. She should know that sexuality is perfectly natural and not dirty or filthy. Really your parents should have told her that already but seeing her present view I'd say they haven't. Let her know that you feel like she invaded your privacy and ask that she knock before entering in the future which is also a courtesy you should give to her. Above all she needs to know that while what she saw is not abnormal or dirty it is not appropriate for her to discuss it with other people and she shouldn't be involved in her own sexuality until she is ready personally.
2006-08-25 12:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by PUtuba7 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You don't need to explain anything at all about sex to her. SHe'll learn that soon enough. Tell her that what you do in your room is private and she should have knocked before she came in. Tell her you're sorry if it embarassed her or made her feel weird.
2006-08-25 12:34:31 · answer #3 · answered by clarity 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should talk to your father about it and explain what happened. Then have your dad talk to your mom and then your mom should talk to your sister. You have done enough don't try to fix the situation with your sister. Let your parents handle it. Either way everything is going to be very awkward.
2006-08-29 10:20:23 · answer #4 · answered by fin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, i'm a girl and i'm 25. why do you think your sister will be doing **** like that soon. i don't. and never have. anyways, tell her that if she has any questions about it to ask mom or dad. they are the best ones to go to in a situation like that. you do not have to be ashamed of anything, just next time make sure you lock your door.
2006-08-25 12:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by manager 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you should be honest and tell your mom what happend so she can talk to your sister {I wouldnt want my son explaining that to his sister} and make sure you lock the door everytime
2006-08-25 12:45:43 · answer #6 · answered by fetter_2004 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Uh, dude, first of all that is kinda hard to explain to an 8-year old. Second, if you want to do that kind of thing, please use the bathroom instead of your bedroom (better privacy).
2006-08-25 12:34:00 · answer #7 · answered by Kenneth w 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wow. awkward. ok first don't tell her about the "she will be doing it too", shes freaken 8 and hearing that from your brother is just weird. just tell her your sorry about the incident and knock next time.
2006-08-25 12:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
get a lock on the door LOL
2006-08-25 12:33:35 · answer #9 · answered by anne04char 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She might just need time.
2006-08-25 12:34:27 · answer #10 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋