and, as some of you might kno, im still a virgin but my bf is quite experienced, and i would like to be the best hes ever had even tho its my first time. what do you reccomend?
2006-08-25 11:59:37 · 29 answers · asked by wishopeace 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, i am 19, so im not underage and weve been together for over 6 months. and hes never pressured me once to sleep with him, i just decided this, and he doesnt even kno. and i do love him, very much. and i kno he loves me.
So can u please give me straight answer and none of this "wait till marriage' crap?
2006-08-25 12:09:25 · update #1
girl dont do it lisen to all of us who are telling you to wait till your married, believe me your purity is priceless and is something you can never can get back once its gone and like a few other people have said what if hes not the right one for you? you could be making the biggest mistake of ur life here, what makes you so sure he isnt going to walk out on you once hes got what he wanted? if he loves you he will wait for you till you both get married, it seems like your the one making all the sacrifices here you need 2 ask yourself would ur b/f be as willing as you are to give something up for you? why dont you challenge him by asking him to do something big for you to see what the results are and that way you will know for sure how he feels about you, if hes the right one for you and if he is worth ur purity.
i dont think your going to lisen to any of this but i thort id give you my opinion anyway after all i dont have anything to loose where as YOU have
please be wise and carefull for your own sake
2006-08-25 12:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It would be wise to think long and hard before pulling tricks out your bag for a guy you've only been with 6 months. Save that action for a fiancee or better yet, a husband. You don't want to walk away with regret about giving so much to a man that you may not be with for the long haul.
If your boyfriend is really that experienced, there is nothing you can do to "wow" him like he's never had it. You don't learn those tricks on your first time out. It makes no difference how much porn you watch. Nothing takes the place of experimentation and experience. And nothing is better than practice. You need time to discover what you like and what you can do so that your partner will like it, WITHOUT HAVING TO SACRIFICE WHAT YOU LIKE.
If your boyfriend loves you, with him knowing it's your first time, he should be the one on Yahoo answers to figure out how to make your first time special. He shouldn't expect you to know how to pop tricks off the top. I can guarantee you he didn't when he first got started. If nothing else, ask him to show you what he likes. But again, I'd think long and hard about giving up the good stuff with a guy you've known such a short time.
If all else fails, email me at honey_tango@yahoo.com. I have a few tips which might help. Good luck.
2006-08-25 19:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by Honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't!
The fact that you are trying to be "the best he's ever had" even though you are still a virgin tells me that you must still be pretty young or else you would know better than to think you can accomplish your goal. So, my advice is this: giving yourself away to someone prior to marrying them is never going to get you anything good. At best, and it's a long shot, nothing bad will happen by living like that. More likely, one of the following will occur: STD, pregnancy, lowered self-esteem, loss of respect for you by your parents (when they find out), and by you immeadiately after, feelings of guilt about it....etc., etc. etc.
For most young guys, sex is the priority but don't fool yourself into thinking that means that YOU are important to them. By giving yourself away to them, sex from you becomes their focus; not you the person. You have nothing to lose by waiting because anyone who doesn't want to be with you or hassles you because of it does not have your best interests at heart; those people have their own interests and agendas.
Value yourself and others will too!
2006-08-25 19:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by FortheFuture 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing.. u should keep ur virginity cause everything will change once he's got some and u'll be chasing him everywhere he goes and u'll become insecure when he doesn't answer ur calls.. u'll start acting like he owes u something.. then he'll want it all the time even when u don't.. it has happened to all my friends..
if u don't luv him, if he doesn't luv u and if ur under 18 i wouldn't give it to him.... u need to be sure cause once u do u can' t go back.. and him being experienced, is that supposed to be a compliment.. that just goes to show that he's been around...
if u do decide to go through w/it.. do not give him oral or have unprotected sex, even if ur on birth contro....
2006-08-25 19:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by Queen D 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all you need to gain experience, how can u be the best at something if u'v never done it? Let him teach u then soon u'll figure out what he likes and then u can take it from there. Remember try to be open minded guys don't like shy gurls. OK have fun and always be safe.
yours truly,
Twilight
2006-08-25 19:07:17 · answer #5 · answered by Twilight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just moan well like you're giving birth. If he is experienced he will know what to do. But don't you wanna wait till' marriage like Jessica Simpson who is sleeping with different guys now. And don't forget to use protection.
2006-08-25 19:04:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I recommend not sleeping with him
It is waaaaay too dangerous in this day and age to mess around with bed-hopping and fickle b/fs that've slept w/ other women and that'll leave u as soon as they're done with your body (just like he did w/ those other women!)
Purity is a gift; preserve it well
2006-08-25 19:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by Ayumi 23 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and let him lead the way for you. However if things stat to not feel right for you stop. Your pleasure is just as important for you as his is for him. Don't get discouraged if things don;t seem like you were his best first time out . I am willing to bet he doesn't expect you to be.
2006-08-25 19:06:21 · answer #8 · answered by Redeye 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until he marries you. Then he will be so enticed by you, you'll easily make him forget his past. The best sex is when two people who are truly in love spend hours making passionate love sharing each other in the bed of Holy matrimony.
2006-08-25 19:03:48 · answer #9 · answered by Matt B 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if u r letting him take your virginity and i hope hes worth it u r giving him a great honour so dont worry about what u will b like just let everything happen naturally let him take the lead and make him where a condom
2006-08-25 19:04:50 · answer #10 · answered by sarah71397 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋