Would like to know what happened to cause him not to call and cancel today's date?

Question

I had a date today with a gentleman I had met on computer dating program. We had met in public place earlier in the week, we hit it off very well. He called me during the week and we met for dinner and a movie. Then we set up a date to have breakfast at a local eatery and spend the day shopping and antiquing downtown. Well the day of the date arrived and no call , no email. I called his cell and got the voice mail. I'm very disappointed and sad to be treated this way. So, what's up? What happened? We are both grown, hopefully mature adults and I expected more from him than this.

Answer 1

Don't be sad about it. I am sure this was a sign that there is a person out there for you that suits you even better than this guy.

Answer 2

His wife found out what he is up to so he coudln't call. He will come up with a lame excuse as soon as he gets the wife off his back.

Answer 3

Maybe when he seen you he didn't find you attractive but didn't have the balls to tell you that he was interested due to looks.
And so, he made fake-plans with you to make you feel better when in reality, it only makes you feel worse because he didn't initiate the plans or answer his calls.

Answer 4

Take it that the relationship has ended in silence.

Some things are better left unsaid.

If he tries to contact you, you can choose to respond or not to.

Answer 5

well, it could be many things......he could have died....but assuming that is not it.....he may have just said okay to you....to not start a fight...maybe he didn't feel the same way......it would be nice if all men grew up...but not all us do

Answer 6

But you'll come back for more 'cause you need him