there's this new girl in my class that just came into the country two weeks ago... according to all my friends, she is hooked on to me, but i really dont see any of the usual things... what are the "subtle" clues that a girl shows when she likes u?
2006-08-25 11:44:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Typically, we'll watch u, usually when we think you're not looking If you catch us watching, we'll typically give a cute little smile or wave or something that we hopes says to you "Hey, you're cute."
IfIf we're bold enough, we'll approach you and try to strike up a conversation w/ you and try to get to know you and let you get to know us. (friendship can lead to a date, ya know!)
We make it a point 2 be nice to you
We often make eye contact w/ you
Also, since this chick is a foreigner, maybe people in her country have different ways of showing atrraction; maybe you should ask her about her homeland (exchange students LOVE it when you ask them about their home) and gain some info. It'll show her that you're interested in her life and maybe the signs will become a little clearer!
2006-08-25 11:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by Ayumi 23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE TALK TO HER
i've tried a lot to send the subtle signals but guys just dont get it, plus im SUPER shy,
and i just wish that the guy im interested in would just pick up on the smallest hint that im into him and come up to me and just chat about something small yet meaningfull, like taste in music,
its not a major thing, its a good ice breaker and you can tell a lot about someone by the music they like, then you can both kind of feel each other out and see if you want to hang out together more
good luck, i hope that at the very least you make another friend!!
2006-08-25 18:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by punkrockprincess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah, classic question. girls can by shy, they fear rejection just as guys do. if you're really bold, make a move and let her know you are interested in getting to know her, pay her attention, flirt a little. if no response, you will know what you need to know.
some clues: staring at you, looking for reasons to hang out near or with you, sometimes telling her peers, so as a last resort, maybe ask a friend? but that is a little gamey. the best way to know can be the hardest, be upfront and let her know where you stand, see if she reciprocates. or build a friendship first, take it from there. she's new, still adjusting, maybe shy herself, let her know you can show her around or introduce her to new people. she may really appreciate you for that.
2006-08-25 18:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take this from a girl...
1.She will stare at you a lot. That's a start.
2.Say hi to you all the time (unless she's shy nvm)
3.Walk pass by you all the time with a little (so called) sexy walk lol
4.Her friends//people will ask you if you like her
5.Act more "preppy" around you
That's all I know. Hopefully it helps!
2006-08-25 18:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll look at u and stare. She plays with her hair. When u look to see if she's looking she'll look the other way or smile or some thing. How she acts around you and her friends. How she dresses. Does she try to be around you alot etc. Ask her straight up. One of two things could happen she'd be so shocked that she'd admit it or she'd say nothing. Or maybe she doesn't like u and is messing with ya. I dunno. Hope this helps.
2006-08-25 18:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she talk to you a lot?
Does she ask for help on things?
Does she just talk to you when a lot of other people around?
Does she talk to your friends?
If you said yes to the majority of these questions, that it is my guess that she likes you. First off, if she asks for help on something, like schoolwork, then she is asking for your attention, trust me, when a girl does that she most likely already knows it but just wants attention from the guy. And if she talks to your friends a lot then it means she wants to be cool with your friends, so it would lead to you liking her, for accepting your friends.
2006-08-25 18:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by Camille S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may get nervouse or shy. And she may try to either talk to u, or get away from u. Either of them are a sign that she likes u. She might not look at u when u talk, or she might. The biggest clues are that she might look at u alot, try to talk to u alot, or hang out with u alot.
2006-08-25 18:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it`s kinda of stupid but they turn red in the face laugh alot pick on you and Try to stand and follow you. Good luck with her if you like her you should go out with her.
P.S. It`s really hard for the person who`s being hit on to tell.
2006-08-25 18:49:27 · answer #8 · answered by sportygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you catch her looking at you.
or if she's shy, if you see her first, and she looks away quickly- that means she's self conscious around you.
if she thinks your funny--laughs when you say funny things...
yeah i'm not big on flirting, and those are the kinds of things i do.
stuff like that. good luck
2006-08-25 18:55:33 · answer #9 · answered by al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She smiles at you
You gotta do the rest buddy
she's not gonna walk up to you and ask you out.
2006-08-25 18:50:02 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋