you didn't take into consideration that possiblities? I just think it's sad that so many babis are born out of lust and no commitment by their parents and even being aborted or abondned because of their parents carelessness and selfishness? I'm sorryif I'm so blunt or hurt feelings..I'm just trying to understand
2006-08-25 11:39:54 · 18 answers · asked by jc23j5 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
The first person stated that getting pregnant was considered to be a mistake. I think that spilling a cup of milk is a mistake because you didn't mean to spill it and would have tryed to stop it from spilling.
Getting pregnant is a choice that people make. Whether they wanted to get pregnant or not, it is still a choice that is made with a person has sex. There isn't a birth control that is 100% effective, so therefore, when a person has sex there is a chance to get pregnant and the person make the choice to stop, or to have sex.
2006-08-25 11:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by cherrypie p 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My husband and I were married already before I got pregnant and I was on birth control and wadda ya know I got pregnant. It was an accident but it was also a big surprise. My husband and I couldnt be happier about our son being born a year ago. Also you have to understand something that a lot of people dont, God isnt going to give you something you cant handle. If people had more faith I guess there would be less lusting and aborting. Also on the other hand God did give us freedom to make our own desicions so let it be- because you will drive yourself crazy trying to understand everyone. Just worry about you and thats all you can do, sorry if I sounded rude but Im not trying to be.
2006-08-25 19:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how many times i have felt that way when these girls keep asking Am I Pregnant they want the symptoms to be there immediately after having sex it is like they see a friend at school get pregnant and its oh SO cool but do you know what I have observed they see the pregnancy but after the baby is actually born they don't see that person anymore and it doesn't click hey i am not seeing them because they have to work to take care of the baby -they can't hang out at the mall because of the baby- they can't go to the movies,concert,etc because of the baby Pregnancy amongst teenagers is glorified being a parent is a deep hidden ta-bu
2006-08-25 18:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by lynx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's common knowledge that sperm+egg=baby so it's not an accident unless it was a rape. People are like oh the condomn broke it was an accident didn't they ever read the package 99% effective not 100. There's still a chance and they're taking that gamble not having back up protection.
2006-08-25 20:55:48 · answer #4 · answered by JL's Mom 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No pregnancy is an accident! Heck, I have 3 kids, every one of them planned. If I didn't want to get pregnant then I didn't and when I wanted to I did. It's that simple. With all of the contraception today there is no such thing as a pregnancy accident.
(Also I have never used any birth control in my life besides condoms and self control)
2006-08-25 18:48:05 · answer #5 · answered by GeorgiaGurl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its just a bunch of kids who don't want to take responsibility for their own actions. You don't see many adults having abortions, do you?
I'm not trying to debate abortion, I'm just saying that my generation isn't responsible and just decides to take the easy way out of pretty much everything. We're worse than the MTV generation.
Yes, I agree that getting pregnant is not an accident. It isn't like you tripped over something. Now rape is a different story.
2006-08-25 18:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by Jamps 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My kids were "surprises." That doesn't mean I "didn't think I would get pregnant." I knew there was a chance because birth control isn't 100% effective. As for the rest, their father and I are VERY committed to each other. Just remember, God doesn't make mistakes.
2006-08-25 18:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Accidental pregnancys are rape or a broken condom, or other form of protesction gone wrong. It can happen my parents used protection and still had my brother. Accidents really can happen. Protection is not 100% guranteed. But caught up in the heat of the moment is not an accident. It is pure neglect and irresponsibility!
2006-08-25 18:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Getting pregnant at this time is not a accident, cause there is Lot of ways to prevent that on this day's. having a child with out a good preparation in life before, is a stupid decision. think before you act.
2006-08-25 18:47:32 · answer #9 · answered by Isabel Gaviota 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For those of -u- that would even use the two words in the same,accident & pregnant,any one in their right mind haveing sex,even if told they could not have any children,still you know it is a chance -u- could get PREGNANT no dout,look out,pill or no pill nothing is 100%and -u-trust in it shame on -u-but sill no accident it use ment to happen,...Pearl g,Halla
2006-08-25 19:01:49 · answer #10 · answered by pearl g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋