I've known this guy for about 2 years now. we've spent almost every second with eachother this past summer. and we've done everything besides sex. EVERYTHING besides sex. he says that he loves me and everything. and he told one of my friends that he likes me just he cant have a girlfriend. well okay i can understand that , but at school he doesnt act like he does, and this weekend he is going over to a birthday party sleepover. a GIRLS b-day party/sleepover and is spending the night. well, i think one of the girls likes him because of how she looks at him all the time and when he was talkin to me today in the hall he kept looking over at the other girl and she was smiling at him but he wasnt smiling back he just kept talkin to me and like when he's with me, and just me or with my friends katie and alexis, he acts like he's totally into me and when its just me and him, he like holds me close to him, and kisses me and says i love you. so i dont know what to think. please help..
2006-08-25 11:32:59 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're over analyzing the situation. Eventually, when the time is right, you two need to do the deed.
2006-08-25 11:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by ManOfTheHour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy does not want anyone to know you two are a couple, maybe because he is playing the field. In other words he has more than one chick. Don't rush into sex at any point in time and it is best you find out now what his purpose is with the relationship. Don't let him play you for a fool.
2006-08-25 11:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pardon my "puns" but it sounds like this young "rooster" is looking for a good "cluck"(sexual experience) in the "hen house". If he truly enjoys your company, socially, he will try to impress you more by offering you something more than a quickie at a sleepover. If you really like him, continue to talk to him and to be friendly but do not allow him to form a physical entanglement with you before getting to know you as a person, socially. Giving in to peer pressure to "have sex" is like laying an egg: a stinking mistake. Please do not get "chicken" and give in to a physical addiciton to him unless you just want to get "laid". Best wishes.
2006-08-25 11:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will be other people at the b'day party, so don't be so worried.
If you don't want him to have other friends aside from yours then you probably shouldn't be together.
Then again if you think that you can;t trust him then you shouldn't be together either.
BUT, if you trust him don't worry, ask him about the party and what went on, you'll know then whether to trust him or not.
2006-08-25 11:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by kid666_nz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so young sweetheart...... Let me tell you that "Good things come to those who wait" You need to wait to see what happens. Just ignor him,watch to see what happens. Never press a guy to do your will because it will only break him.You don't want to break a guy because you do that and he has none of his own stregth,just be patient,he may love you or it may have been a prank,you need to stand back and let him do what makes him happy.
Ok, I gotta stop doing the whole"Mother Love" thing.......It's scareing me.
2006-08-25 11:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your being paranoid. You shouldn't focus on everything outside of your relationship (i.e this other girl and the sleepover), you should just worry about the two of you adn what he thinks of you and not what he thinks of others
2006-08-25 11:38:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing you and the other girl. He may be playing other girls as well. Please find someone else. He is only going to hurt you in the long run. He doesn't have the respect for you that he should, and he gives all guys a bad name with this behavior.
2006-08-25 11:44:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't want to say he's a player, but... i think he just wants to have his fun, with no relationships. i don't know the reason why no sex but either he thinks" if so, then were together". but if he's doing that with you, he just might be doing the same with someone else and /or at this party. you need to tell him were you two stand.
2006-08-25 11:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by doyouhavecheesecake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll, ask him about that girl, tell him what u feel. But don't worry about the no sex issue. Sex does not define a relationship.
Good luck!
2006-08-25 11:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by ashleythequestionasker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he wants sex. He has said that he can't have a girlfriend, it's time to give up on him.
When did they start having co-ed sleep overs??
2006-08-25 11:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋