my bf and i have been going out for 3 months now.(we started goin g out at may 13th.) i asked him if he ever cheated on me before or ever lied to me in a way that would change our relationship and he said NO. "im not that type of guy" but the other day, i went to his profile [myspace] and saw that he went out with a chick up to may 24th. and he's aying they broke up on the 2nd and even made a deal with her [ex] so that i could "get over it". i was outraged and told him i knew everything. and he wasn't that type of guy. he lied to me, cheated on me, and claimed to be someone else. i love him but i don't trust him or have belief in him no more. what should i do?? should i keep him or no?
2006-08-25 11:24:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he confessed just NOW because i caught him red-handed. he's saying sorry now and everything else. im so confused.
2006-08-25 12:03:38 · update #1
Move on to bigger and better. The first chink in his armor was his myspace account.
2006-08-25 11:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In such a short time, you really found out a lot. You have already seen that he doesn't respect you, and it probably will never change. If he is in fact cheating on you, you need to dump him. Also, be aware that in such a short time you aren'treally in love with him but more that you have strong feelings for him. That is neither here nor there though. The big issue is that he cheats and as long as you stay with him, he will feel like it is okay to do it. Please leave him before he damges your self esteem and self respect.
2006-08-25 18:34:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater hunny his always gonna be a cheater. no matter how much he tells you hes changed he will always have cheating in his ways. not to mention once a lier always a lier.
do the senceable thing for your self and leave the SOB. you dont need to be treated like your just another one of his sex toys. i know you love him but love your self more and leave him in your dust.
take care and i hope you fine someone who will love you and respect you more then that jerk has.
2006-08-25 18:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by lusciousevil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really love his guy? Ask yourself that, guys come and go, you dont need a guy that will only hurt you! My friend is going through the same situation, but they have been dating for 2 yrs, and she cant trust him, but she refuses to leave him! She doesnt seem happy, but she loves him! She's only hurting herself!! You dont want to be like that! TRUST AND HONESTY should be FIRST when it comes to a relationship, already that's what you dont have! Think it over...Do what's best for you! like I said guys come and go....
2006-08-25 18:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by jackie b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should dump him because there are many other guys out there you is better than him. You don't deserve to be cheated on. If he cheated on you, he probably loves her more than you. Make sure that whoever you pick for your boyfriend, make sure that they will NEVER cheat on you. He totally doesn't deserve you.
2006-08-25 18:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by JHS. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmm toughie! .... i think if you look for dirt on anyone then you will find it .... but three months, love? are you sure? .... he shouldnt be cheatin you in the first three months as that is still the romance stage. Perhaps he is playing the field ... but the choice is yours obviously ... personally i think you should make him work to get ya back .. if he does not try hard then he is not worth it ,.... good luck
2006-08-25 18:33:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater. i know i'm a guy. you tell a lie, you have to have a lie for that lie. you are gonna live with that non-trust issue a long time and it's gonna eat you up inside
2006-08-25 18:35:56 · answer #7 · answered by doyouhavecheesecake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont love him. Its only been 3 months. Dump the loser.
2006-08-25 18:28:08 · answer #8 · answered by chuckdiesel99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course you should keep him! your not the girl on the side. You're the cheeseburger and she's the yucky salty pickle on the side. think of it that way, My pretty!
2006-08-25 18:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? Dump the loser and find someone else.
2006-08-25 18:44:12 · answer #10 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋