Yesterday I told my bf that i felt he was changing. He asked "how?"
I told i coulnt explain because i had to get off the phone. So i told him i loved him and he said "ah huh." I saidd "what you cant say it back?" He said"WEll if im changing then im gonna change." So i hung up on him. and i cant talk to him till monday.(not cuz of that)In the back of my mind im scared he willl break up with me. But that would be stupid to break up over. Right? I'm 14.
2006-08-25 11:08:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At the age of 14 it's hard to know what you want in a boyfriend because your changing just as much as your boyfriend. Most times when you think that the other person is changing is because your growing up, but he's not progressing in the same direction. Breaking up is not a bad thing because that just opens you up for the right person to come in. Don't be afraid of being alone.
2006-08-25 11:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes couples need some time off. I'm not saying u need a break, just lay back for a bit. Try to be as sweet as possible and try to understand him, even if u don't know what the heck he is going through, be supportive. Sometimes it helps that when one part of the party is doing bad the other one should take charge of the relationship for a bit. Talk to him and don't pressure him in to telling u whats wrong, occasionally ask him how he is doing and how his life is. This is something that has happened to me many times, just be supportive if u two start banging heads nothing will get resolved. Oh and u can't just expect him to say he loves u when u guys are mad or arguing. Don't let this get out of had OK, its nothing that big, but its up to u if u want to make it.
yours truly,
Twilight
2006-08-25 18:27:01 · answer #2 · answered by Twilight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol yes its stupid but i've had bf's like that and he's not going any where he's just as scared as you are!! I think he's just a lil scared of a bit more commitment!! don't be scared just say your sorry but tell him you really do love him if you do!! and he probably feels the same as you do!!! girl don't worry about a thang you'll be alright!!!
2006-08-25 18:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by Shaila F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The trials and tribulations of being 14...
Don't worry, all is not lost or over.
2006-08-25 18:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax little girl
These are temporary immature little relationships
When you actually grow up you will hopefully have real relationships that we adults have
2006-08-25 18:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT STUPID,
"NORMAL" 4 A GUY HIS AGE!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-25 18:14:32 · answer #6 · answered by bobby-bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋