On Sunday, August 13th, my son was born (I am just friends with his mother now) and my fiancee went with me and supported me while we waited. She told me she would help me any way she could and would always be there for me. On Tuesday, 2 days later, my cousin and her were hanging out while I was at work, my cousin drove me in my fiancee's car so he could use her car to look for a job. While I was at work they slept together in my house, in my shower and claimed to be in love. When I came home, not knowing what happend, she jumped me and we had sex as well, hours after they had. On the following Thursday I sensed something was up and forced the truth out of them. I nearly grabbed my gun and killed them. They had no where to go and I didn't have a car so I had to let both of them stay with me so I could use her car to get to work. On Tuesday, her birthday, I bought a car and told them to get the f*** out and I hope they die. Her daughter (from another man) called me daddy that same day.
2006-08-25 11:06:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This sounds like a soap opera.
Get rid of the suds, honey...
2006-08-25 11:08:53 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about your luck. Bad that you shared such a joyous time with her (the birth of your son) and for this to happen. But at least you know now and not later like after you got married. Get on your feet and be a good dad. The rest will follow later.
2006-08-25 11:12:53 · answer #2 · answered by {Lisa} 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you bought her a car??? Just because the child calls you daddy and no matter how much you do love this woman in all honesty could you ever trust her again? I know your angry right now and you have every right to be perhaps give yourself a few weeks to calm down and collect your thoughts and emotions. And congrts on the son
2006-08-25 11:11:53 · answer #3 · answered by Varacha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a seriously fuc**d up situation to me. I can't believe that there were no gunshots. There would definitely have been some gunshots at my house! Two dead cheaters and a house full of bulletholes. Yep. A dead cousin and a dead bitc*! Also, I would have taken a cab to work after I shot them. You need a real woman, not some slutty cheating whore.
2006-08-25 11:47:28 · answer #4 · answered by Enough 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a B*TCH!!! You need to freaking kill both of them! just kidding dont want you to go to prison. All you can do is kick her a** out tell her to f*ck off (along with your cousin) and move on. Maybe you should sleep with her mom. Haha I dont know but that is some f*cked up sh*t and if I were you I'd be so p*ssed.
2006-08-25 11:11:11 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all i hope everythig comes out good, and well i will forgive them first, but i would've let them in my house. betrayal from sum1 that says that "loves u" is a real hard situation to get over with. and well bout her kid callin u daddy, i have no words for that, cus if a kid thats not mine called me daddy i wuold probabbly give the kid all my love, but i guess u gotta let time do its job.
2006-08-25 11:14:15 · answer #6 · answered by el_oso_candeloso 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You took the correct path. Keep walking away. Nothing good is going to come out of that situation. As for the child, they will soon forget you.
2006-08-25 11:09:39 · answer #7 · answered by tjjone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats sweet and all that her daughter said that but you need to move on -she did your cousin - thats your family that dissed you - that is so not cool. besides you did just have a baby of your own so now you need to concentrate on being a daddy
2006-08-25 11:11:30 · answer #8 · answered by curious1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on that new baby for a while (3 months). Then slowly start dating.
2006-08-25 11:13:08 · answer #9 · answered by Tyler Durdin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing by telling her to get out. The best thing to do now is to just focus on your new baby boy.
2006-08-25 11:10:29 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋