Some guy told me the other day he saw this other guy kiss her before at a Shoney's Restaurant. She is almost 24 and I don't know what to think or what to do about this.
2006-08-25 11:05:10 · 15 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is 24, I would be very surprised if she was a virgin. Regardless of if she is or isn't the only thing that should matter is that she is your girl friend right now and wants to be with you. Stop worrying about her past and focus on what you two have right now or you will do something stupid and lose her.
2006-08-25 11:07:57 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are dating a girl who is 23, I'd say she probably isn't a virgin. What difference does that make? Somebody said they saw her kiss another guy... so you're going on second hand information? You could tell her that you heard that, and ask if it's true. At least give her the chance to defend herself, before you believe gossip about her.
Do the two of you have a promise not to date anybody else? If so, then you need to trust her. If not... then why wouldn't she feel free to kiss somebody else?
Be totally honest with her, and ask her to be totally honest with you.
2006-08-25 11:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter if she is or isn't? The past is the past. She is 24. But if she has told you she is a virgin, unless she has given you reasons to believe otherwise I would believe her. Kissing is not going to make her any less of a virgin. Also what kind of friend goes around telling you things about your girlfriend?
Talk to her!
2006-08-25 11:10:43 · answer #3 · answered by smile4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing does not constitute a loss of virginity. I have two female friends (and one male) that are still virgins. The females are 28 and 32. The male is 35. They are Christians and holding off till marriage. They have all kissed the opposite sex and "made out" for the lack of better terms. One of the female actually got naked and oral with a guy....and almost did it, but stopped.
Trust her.
2006-08-25 11:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by tjjone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does it matter for you, old wisdom say that woman is always virgin with a new lover. I would not like that my girlfriend kisses "other guy" in public place but you should ask her about it. Communication is so important do not assume that she is guilty and try to be no aggressive or accusing.
2006-08-25 11:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, what's the matter if she kissed another guy. before you. Doesn't mean she slept with him. She can still be a virgin at 24. I know it's hard to believe but it is possible. One day you will know. And if she isn't than you know your dating a liar and dreamer. But again it is possible she can still be one.
2006-08-25 11:18:47 · answer #6 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it's none of your business if she's a virgin. And if you think kissing someone makes you lose your virginity, you need to talk to someone about reproduction. Finally, don't believe every thing that someone tells you.
2006-08-25 11:11:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you rather believe someone? That's why trust exist. Does it matter to you if she's not? Don't let that affect you so much coz it's just a shallow reason if you'll lose her.
2006-08-25 11:19:39 · answer #8 · answered by denathene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is ask her. Be prepared for any answer, be calm tell her what you were told and make sure you don't accuse her of anything. Good luck!
2006-08-25 11:10:08 · answer #9 · answered by whatsupdoc? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her it shouldn't really matter if she is a virgin or not. What she did in her past is just that, HER past.
2006-08-25 11:08:14 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋