Ok, I got back with my ex and never went out with that other guy my problem now is I think I have actually lost interest in him. I almost feel like I am only with him for him and don't really want to be. I don't want to be without him though. He is always around though so I don't see how I would be without him but I just don't know anymore. I love him, think I love him, want to love him; but sometimes when I just hug him I am just thinking ok let go of me...and I am just so confused b/c when I wasn't technically his gf I missed him even when I saw him. Whats wrong with me? Why don't I like giving him hugs or kissing him as much as I used to? And what can I do to bring that interest back. Or is there anything I can do? I just don't know what to do anymore. I want to spend the rest of my life with him but if I feel like this then how can I?
Thanks a lot.
2006-08-25 11:03:44 · 4 answers · asked by Little one 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to spend a few days alone to sort out your feelings. You may just have way to much going on in you head. Also, since before you weren't technically his g/f, and now you are, the chase is over, so it is not as appealing. Spend a few days finding your thoughts and sorting them. Good Luck
2006-08-25 11:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by {Lisa} 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are confused, alright.
Take a sheet of paper, fold it in half, and put all the reasons you love him on one side and all the things that irritate you on the other.
See which side adds up then take it from there.
2006-08-25 18:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need a vacation from him. Take 2 weeks off from him. Tell him you need some space and you'll call him when you're ready. During that time....if you find you're happier...then don't call him back. If you miss him...call him.
2006-08-25 18:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by tjjone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, almost in the same situation myself.
2006-08-25 18:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by sandy02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋