This girl and I had a really good date last night and I want to hangout again but I don't know when it's a good time for a second date. I want to try and turn this into more than a few dates and just a hook up or booty call. I don't want to look crazy asking her out again real soon should I let her take control and see when she calls me next?
2006-08-25 11:01:59 · 23 answers · asked by sackingsfan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She will be very happy if you ask her out again right away, or at least call her and talk on the phone. Every other day is not too much, and some couples talk every day and get together 3-4 times a week. No, don't wait for her to call you. Lots of girls will not call boys because their parents don't think it's appropriate.
Don't be afraid to show her that you're interested.
2006-08-25 11:06:47 · answer #1 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no no. Don't wait for her to call. Most women will wait for the guy to call them. Granted there are some women who will take charge, but most don't. I would try calling her the next day and just have a friendly conversation. Near the end of the conversation, I would let her know that you had alot of fun and wanted to know if she'd like to go out again sometime. If you wait several days to call her, she will think that you don't like her. And if she had a good time too on the date, she will be thinking about you all day long. So GO FOR IT!!!
2006-08-25 11:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until the next upcoming weekend. I mean, you can always talk to her on the phone, but it's OK to wait until the next weekend when you are both free. Or ask her if she wants to grab a cup of coffee during the week sometime. If you're seeing her during the week, keep it simple: coffee, hanging out in the park, MAYBE an early movie. But for the REAL dates (dancing, dinner, etc.) keep that stuff for the weekend. I assume you both work during the week. Keep that in mind...
As far as when to call her, call her the next day to say what a good time you had and tell her you'll call her later in the week to see if she wants to go out next weekend. Even better, you can email her. In MY day, we didn't have this fancy schmancy email. We actually had to TALK to the girl.. and we LIKED it..
2006-08-25 11:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never let a good date get away. Usually I ask her out again before the first date is over. If she's perceiving this as a good date...she will accept the offer.
2006-08-25 11:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by tjjone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a week to the day that u guys went out. call her up and just ask her something stupid like if she would help u pick something out for ur sister or something at the mall or help u, gets you guys close, not really a date, so you wont look crazy, and it gives you guys a chance to walk, talk, and learn things about eachother. and if she says no, its not like u got turned down, just "alright thats fine, i hoped to have a help from a girl with style, but im sure i can ask one of my friends to tag along" or something cute. lol. goodd luck!*
2006-08-25 11:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could call her and ask her if she would like to go out again, and if she says yes set the date for like next eekend or something. Then you wont look sycho, and your still in.
2006-08-25 11:05:37 · answer #6 · answered by chicata25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have set up another date before the last one ended man.
2006-08-25 11:04:48 · answer #7 · answered by jaybrdxxx69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her today and ask her out for tomorrow night. If she is busy, ask her for lunch on Sunday. If you wait for her to call you, you may be waiting for awhile. Good Luck
2006-08-25 11:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by {Lisa} 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make the first contact and take her out for a walk in the park
2006-08-25 11:04:32 · answer #9 · answered by frankmilano610 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 weeks later
2006-08-25 11:03:59 · answer #10 · answered by dookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋