Not that I would mind if he does, Im not insecure, I just wonder how true do you think that is. Ive learned that its normal for most men to do so, so its hard to beleive, why not just tell me? I have been with women before we married so he knows I would understand why he looked at other women, why not were hott. Is he scared I will be mad or am I really all he sees?
2006-08-25 10:58:46 · 46 answers · asked by MommyBlueEyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well to start off any man who says he doesn't look at other women is defiantly a liar.. sorry guys... but coming from the married sector there is a good way to find out if he is or isn't..as i have told my wife we are married i am not dead...but it is in the human nature to look that's just the way it is because when we look we are looking to see what we can get next. it's when we stop looking you have to worry for we found what we are looking for. but ladies don't go around accusing us for that is when we act on our impulse to seek the company of other women... if you accuse us we will go do it for in your mind we are already guilty so why not have the fun too.........
2006-08-25 12:38:40 · answer #1 · answered by jerry c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband looks at other women. No matter what he tells you... he looks. Which is cool. If he is a real man and not gay then he looks. He may not mess around or anything like that but he looks. They all do. Maybe he just wants to make you feel good by letting you think he only has eyes for you. Which is cool too.
2006-08-25 11:04:27 · answer #2 · answered by Dee76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, it's possible that he loves you so much...other women can't compare...or it's possible that he's afraid you'll be upset if you THINK he's looking. Neither reason is bad. If he loves you that much, that's fantastic. If he's trying not to upset you, that's also good because he cares enough about you that he doesn't want to hurt you. It's ALSO possible that he's afraid if he tells you he finds someone attractive, you might suggest he invite her over for a menage a trois, and that might scare the heck out of him.
2006-08-25 11:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is hard to believe, he probably does think you'll freak out on him and cuss him out for looking at other women. Just get that straight to him that you don't mind. Personally I don't mind either but he should have enough respect for you not to do it in front of you unless you tell him you're fine with it, another example of this is like how flirting is fine but don't do it in front of your partner if you do do it in front of your partner it's fine if they say they don't mind and they can do the same thing as you do.
2006-08-25 11:04:24 · answer #4 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband does this to me also. Says he doesn't EVER look at another woman, when it's obvious to me that he does. I catch him sometimes. I look at the history on our computer and find that he's looking at young, Paris Hilton type girls. Which I'm not and never will be and never wanna be! But, I think he tells me that because he thinks it will hurt me. Maybe he's doing the same with you? Or maybe he really doesn't, but I doubt it since he IS a man. LOL.
2006-08-25 11:04:46 · answer #5 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be that to him you are the most beautiful woman on the earth. Don't doubt him, love him for it........ He still notices other women, but he knows that he has the greatest woman in the world already so they lose their appeal to him. Sounds like you have a great guy.
2006-08-25 11:03:41 · answer #6 · answered by {Lisa} 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just afraid of hurting your feelings or starting an argument! I ave a feeling if you have to ask him if he does look, that it would really be a tense subject, and he does not think that it is worth the argument! Just drop it! Stupid crap like that is not worth fighting over.
Besides I bet you look at others too!
2006-08-25 11:09:54 · answer #7 · answered by suequek 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you don't believe him? They have eyes to look. You can look but don't touch right?. He may just tell you that to make you feel better. All men look no matter what. I know I look at other men. But there is nothing wrong with it. We wouldn't be human if we didn't look.
2006-08-25 11:04:10 · answer #8 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone,man or woman,will hit on a man or woman it's natural.he looks at women and you probably looks at men.so if you don't care then tell him to be up front with it.ya the reason why he won't tell ya is because either he's embarresed or he thinks that you'll be uncomfortable.talk,it'll make your marriage easier.
2006-08-25 11:06:36 · answer #9 · answered by melcheetahnyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is trying to make you feel better because I believe that all men look just as all woman look at other men.
2006-08-25 11:03:24 · answer #10 · answered by oneontaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋