There's a girl at my school that i really really really really really really like and when im around her its like everythings perfect and when she's not around me i constantly think about her and i can't wait until the next time i see her and....... i love her and i want to ask her out so bad!!!! and were both crhistain and were both freshmen and were both in ROTC and for ROTC there is a military ball and i want to ask her to come to the military ball with me sooooooooooo bad, but if she says no i..i..i dont no wat to do if she says no....i love her so much!!!....i cant take it if she says no...i need some advice...PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-25 10:51:53 · 53 answers · asked by JesusFreak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Awww, I feel for you. You are going to have to ask her to go to the ball with you. The possibility of rejection is all part of dating. Try looking at it in a more positive way. She may be dying for you to ask her! If you don't ask her you will always have that "what if" hanging over your head. If she turns you down at least then you will know where you stand with this hopeful love of your life... Don't sell your self short and go for it!! She's waiting to be asked!!
2006-08-25 11:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by chrisadrian45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should understand that the chance she says no is 50-50. You should appreciate that she , for any reasons, might not be able to accept your invitation but that does not mean that's the end of the world. But If you concentrate so much on rejection before you act you may not be able to act properly. Just don't think about what MAY happen and do what a MAN does. Forward and ASK.
Good luck!
2006-08-25 11:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by traveller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you'll live if she says no. Really you will. What are you waiting for, somebody else to ask her first? Call her on the phone right now!!
Ha ha, wouldn't it be funny if she posted a question about this guy she really likes and she'll just die if he doesn't invite her to the military ball?!? LOL! Yahoo Answers, bringing people together one dance at a time...
2006-08-25 10:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by Kim S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well depending on how well you know her, this might just be another high school infatuation. And if it is, then don't worry about it so much. I personally thought I was madly in love with a few people, one I was even convinced I would spend my life with. I went out with them and things didnt work out and it was no biggie. But anyway, Go ahead and ask her. Keep it simple though. Like first ask if she wants to chill after school or if you are REALLY shy, then ask her to come hang out with you and a group of your friends. The more you work yourself up over it then the more nervous you're gonna be. Just stay cool and like I said, keep it simple.
p.s. girls love confidence!
2006-08-25 10:58:02 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all get a grip man. Second you must know you don't love her you just have a huge crush. Third grow some balls and ask her. That simple, easy, done. The worst she can say is no. Don't forget if you wait to long someone else will ask her. Go for it. You heard the theme "Just do it."
2006-08-25 10:57:27 · answer #5 · answered by jaybrdxxx69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have nothing to lose by asking her, if she does say no then at least you will know that she isn't interested, this way you can move on with your life. Just say to her that you would like her to go to the military ball with you and you understand if she prefers not too. Good Luck.
2006-08-25 11:02:52 · answer #6 · answered by Tessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down? You are being WAYYYY to desperate! It's really pathetic. She won't like you if you have this kind of attitude. Girls like guys who are funny, and who are dependent and who are not wimps. You my friend are the wimp type. So get over that. Ask her to the ball. She might say no but it won't be the end of the world. Chances are if you guys talk and are friends she will say yes. But if you never talk to this girl, then do you really think she would say yes? I hope you are at least friends with the girl. Well good luck.
2006-08-25 10:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by dohm84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first take advice from a girl cause they no way more about girls!! and then just chill out!!!here are some steps k
1. just say "well you no how the military ball is cumin up well you see i really think your pretty on the outside and inside. (just comploment her first and start up a conversation).
2. then just strait up ask her and explain why you olny want to take her.
3. last if she says no then just say i respect your choice. and then just ask her "well do you want to go out another time like friday?"
well good luck!!!
oh and be nice and polite!!!!
2006-08-25 11:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by AbbyLovesYou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine she's waiting so that you'll be able to invite her out or like she needs you to inform her that you've emotions for her. in case you do not your gonna lose her. it type of feels that your dropping her little by using little and that i recognize this because even as the conversations are replacing meaning you and her are not on a similar web page. you want to boost up and tell the way you sense and do not watch for her to ask u the way you sense. sit down her down or get on the brink of her and enable her recognize that she's a eye-catching man or woman who u favor to be with. B4 that see if she has emotions for u. in simple terms tell her the way you sense if u adult men have an excellent connection cuz i'm not sensible if u do. If u changed into once close attempt to get her lower back to b ur chum cuz it feels like she's not extremely love u as a lot as u r love her.
2016-11-27 21:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by vowels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, calm down, don't worry if she says no, IT"LL BE OKAY!, but if she says yes, don't freak her out! Just tell her you like and if she's interested ask her to the ball, and if she is after ask her to dinner etc you know how it goes, don't push her and don't go to fast unless your both ready! If she says no..... there are other fish in the sea, be prepared for either answer. Good Luck!
2006-08-25 10:59:55 · answer #10 · answered by whatsupdoc? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋