My ex had orgasm in under a minute. My current G/F takes sometimes 15 min or more. It's beginning to fele like work. I didn't explain on my lst post, cuz this was new to me. Is this normal?
2006-08-25 10:35:18 · 13 answers · asked by seeitmiway32 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lots of us have very short orgasms. Even though hers are short, maybe they are REALLY intense. Mine are like 45 seconds to a minute, but are very strong. It is never a good idea to compare lovers. All women's bodies work differently and chances are that you wont deal with 2 women who have the same orgasmic characteristics. Just be happy you please her at all!
2006-08-25 10:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I recently read an article claiming that the average woman takes 14 minutes to reach orgasm, so 15 minutes isn't abnormal by any stretch of the imagination. Your ex simply had a short fuse...
Learning how to have orgasms with a partner does take some experimentation, both with the positions that each of you like best and with the specific kind of foreplay and attention that works most effectively. If it's starting to feel like work, try spending more time playing with her before intercourse begins. Try thinking of it as "first-person porn" -- caress her, kiss her in all her sensitive areas, take your time and build up her excitement (and yours!) till neither of you can stand it any more.
We tend to like it best when we spend 30-40 minutes making love, of which only the last three to five are spent in intercourse. But the intensity and speed with which we both reach climax can be exhilarating after a long build-up.
2006-08-25 18:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by Scott F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every woman is different when it comes to reaching a sexual climax. For me personally, it takes 10-15 minutes. I know some women that it takes at least an hour or two. It all depends on the person. If it's feeling like work, try foreplay. That should help.
2006-08-25 17:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by Rebecca M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every girl is different. It is very normal for some girls to orgasm fast and others to take more time, even beyond 15 min. You can shorten that sex time with extra foreplay and finding out what really turns her on. Maybe you need to talk dirty, read erotic stories, videos, whatever. Talk to her, she knows what she likes. She can give you the best tips.
2006-08-25 17:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man every girl is different !! It mostly depends on how comfortable the girl is with you and her own body. Not to mention everyone likes something different... The key is to find out what makes her eyes roll back and her toes curl ;)
2006-08-25 17:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by canadianposte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, actually i would say that your ex was faking it.. I can't orgasm in a minute.. i mean i've had some quickies but not like that
2006-08-25 17:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, some girls are just quicker to pop then others. Find out what she likes and work with that and she'll have no choice but to finish sooner.
2006-08-25 17:38:18 · answer #7 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very normal. I am concerned that it feels like work to you. If you are not enjoying pleasing your partner maybe you are with the wrong one.
2006-08-25 17:40:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
every girl is different just ask her to give you a road map to her pleasure ones and it will happen quicker...also i think your ex was faking... good orgasms take time
2006-08-25 17:38:38 · answer #9 · answered by ~Saratini~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different. You have to discover what makes your partner climax.
2006-08-25 17:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by chrisadrian45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋