Men, do you fantasize and think about other women, you know or just see throught out your day? If so, how much and why? Do you think all married men do it? or are some actually that satisfied with their mate that they pay no attention?
2006-08-25 10:30:56 · 27 answers · asked by MommyBlueEyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of course,... it is normal to any male to have naughty thoughts about another woman. It doesn't matter if he is married or single.
From time to time a married man will see someone strikingly alluring, what he does is look and either does something to jepordize his marriage or he will turn away and get on with his life and honour his commitment with his wifey,....
Men are pigs to begin with, its in our nature. We can't help it. But its maturity and our sense of what is right and wrong, that defines us as being right for you or not.
Its also up to you to have a little faith and a little trust in your man. Will he do the right thing or give in to temptation.
I don't know about the next guy, but I would stick by my girl, if I had one. Investing the time to have trust isn't something to throw away on a whim. I'm a one girl guy, even though there are way too many palyers out there.
I hope I helped,
good luck dearie.
Mahalo!!!
2006-08-25 10:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by somber_pieces 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, most men do fantasize about other women.
How much? I don't know, every man is different. Some will do it all day, while others just when seeing a pretty woman.
Do all married men do it? I'm not married, so I can't speak for all men, but I would say 90% do.
Are some actually satisfied? Yes, I believe so. But remember it is human nature to breed. Fantasizing about other women is natural. It is our tendency to pass our genes on to others who we think have good looks and would have pretty children.
I wouldn't get to worried about your husband fantasizing about other women. As long as he doesn't cheat, then it still remains a fantasy, nothing more.
2006-08-25 17:38:21 · answer #2 · answered by Nep-Tunes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend that doesn't even look at other women. Won't shake their hands or nothing. GREAT guy. But... most men wish you would have sex with them and your hottest girl friend. They'd luck to ***** at least 10 women a day. Just this morning, i saw 4 women on the train that i would totally ***** in the bathroom, or an elevator, or a stairwell no problem, if they wanted me. And... i HAVE done that... but not as often as i'd like. Women get boring to men after awhile. You put on weight and we want a younger hotter chick. That's why i just date.
2006-08-25 17:35:10 · answer #3 · answered by punkdrunkard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course. Remember, men are supposed to plant their seed in as many woman as possible. This is nature. Marriage is going directly against what mother nature intended, but is necessary to see the well-being of our children. So there is a CONSTANT tug-and-pull going on....wow other women....no no my wife and our children....oh man she's wonderful i wonder what's she's like....i love my wife and my family means more ot me than anything else....
This is what it is like being a married man. It is normal.
Just remember, the most important thing is to whom does he come back to every night after work? You.
I told my wife from the beginning that I look at other girls, I find them attractive, etc. If I didn't from the moment I met you, then you married a dead man. A man with no heart, no drive, no passion. I won't cheat, but to say that I no longer find any other woman attractive is like telling a dog not to eat that huge pile of meat sitting in front of it. Not gonna happen.
Hope this helps explain it from a married man's perspective.
2006-08-25 17:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by MotorCityMadman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men who have any kind of a sex drive do it. I think it is natural however, and healthy. It can enhance a relationship if the fantasy does not go beyond that. And yes, even satisfied men will do this
2006-08-25 17:39:56 · answer #5 · answered by blonde_guy67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men think about women all day long, especially in the work place. There's a lot of sexual tension there, that's why affairs happen mostly at work. Yes, your husband thinks about women all the time. Married guys are worst then single guys - sorry but I'm just feeding it to you straight.
2006-08-25 17:39:05 · answer #6 · answered by play73 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Any that don't are gay or lying to you. Its a male thing. We are just designed like that. What counts is staying polite. A smile instead of a rude comment for example. Don't take it personally, all men from 5 to 100 are like that.
For me its women I see, imagine, see on TV , etc. Maybe 7 hours a day. I can't help it.
2006-08-25 17:35:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most men do look even if he is satisfied that is his nature,lots of time the grass looks greener on the other side until you get there.
2006-08-25 17:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for the husband to think about other women. My husband shares with me his fantasies of making love with others in his dreams. Indirectly, I learned what turns him on and we have a happily married and sex life.
2006-08-25 17:34:50 · answer #9 · answered by Red Hair Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey.... ALL men think, look, and fantasize about other women.
they look at ALL women....its just whay guys do - they are visual creatures and cant help it.
besides, why care if he looks.... girl let the man look, there is no harm in that. i even point hot girls out to my hubby.
be more secure with yourself and the relationship..... be happy and have fun with it
most important..... LET THE MAN LOOK ( he will anyway )
it doesnt mean anything and its nothing against you.
2006-08-25 17:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋