Ok im 13 & i have a cuzin who is 7 & he has a crush on me & hes liked me like ever sence he was 5..& i have a boyfriend & my lil cuzin thinks its him but im like no its not u..he wont get over me..HELP ME??..wut should i do?.
2006-08-25 10:22:28 · 19 answers · asked by FreakyGiirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He will grow out of it...
2006-08-25 10:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by jingles_200 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think my cuzin likes me 2 and he's 10 so try talking some sense into him
2006-08-25 17:28:04 · answer #2 · answered by supersunnismilez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very normal for young kids to have crushes on people they know, and sometimes that is family members. I wouldnt worry about it too much because he will grow out of it.
He's just a little kid so he doesnt understand yet that you dont date inside the family. Just maybe keep some distance from him when you see him, and give him some space and time. if he sees you less he will think of you less.
2006-08-25 17:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by kari 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is very young. He looks up to you and that's good, but if he is doing things he shouldn't...behaving like he really wants to be your boyfriend, you need to tell your parents, or his parents. I only mean that if he's been trying to kiss you or grab you in places he shouldn't. 7 year olds don't always understand that certain behaviours aren't acceptable. Otherwise, he's just going to grow out of it.
2006-08-25 17:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was gonna say just wait and hell grow out of it, but everyone else already said that, so heres what you can do if u have no patience and want him to stop right away:
(i did this to a wierd boy who had a crush on me even though i already had a boy friend, and it worked!)
let your cousin see you ad your boyfriend together. you could invite him to the next family reunion or something. i let the guy crushing on me see me and my boyfriend making out, but your cousins kinda young to see that, so just hold hands and introduce him to your cousin as your boyfriend. of course, it helps if u let your boyfriend know whats going on so he can help u out. i know it may seem kinda mean to you rcousin, but he'll get over it. and he needs to know that youre not his girlfriend
2006-08-25 18:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by xemax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's young, he'll grow out of it and be humiliated that it ever happened in the first place. Just be patient and leave him alone.
2006-08-25 17:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is just a little kid, ignore it. He'll grow out of it. As a matter of fact, take it as a compliment that he thinks that you are someone really special and it's just a part of childhood.
2006-08-25 17:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's only seven. Give it time. You are probably the only girl he knows near his own age. Once he goes to more school it will change. I don't think it's abnormal.
2006-08-25 17:29:05 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Y don't you say things like ew.. gross we are cousins. Cousins do not have crushes on other cousins. Things like that only happen on Jerry Springer.
2006-08-25 17:26:33 · answer #9 · answered by Kristine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's only 7, he'll grow out of it.
2006-08-25 17:27:57 · answer #10 · answered by Kutekymmee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that cousins are like brothers and sisters because they're pretty close to it. Your parents are brothers or sisters aren't they?
2006-08-25 17:27:45 · answer #11 · answered by it's me! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋