What can I do to make my hair not so frizzy? I have horrible "fly aways" that will never go away.?

Question

Even when I get my hair wet, it feels horrible and dry, of course when I use conditioner I can run my fingers through it but the fly aways and frizziness are about to drive me nuts!!! I have used all the frizzy creams/serums, and it doesnt help. I guess I need something that will make it soft again, between blow drying, chiing, dying and the sun, I think it may be damaged forever. Please help... any tips would be wonderful!

Answer 1

Sebastian and KMS have great lines of product that will help.

Answer 2

1. Get a good haircut to get rid of any dead ends that make your hair look more frizzy than it probably already is.

2. When washing your hair, use a great conditioner, like Hempz or Redken. Leave it on for at least 3 to 5 minutes before rinsing. As a matter of fact, don't even use shampoo at all - just use conditioner. (I know, sounds gross in thought, but, it's not. Trust me, your hair will still get clean. My sister and I have been doing the no-shampoo thing for 6 months now and our hair has never looked better. We both have long, naturally-curly hair.)

3. Do not overly towel-dry your hair. You should not be rubbing or wringing the towel on your hair too hard.

4. Use a nice leave-in conditioner, like Redken Anti-Snap. Or, a hair oil like "Olive Oil" (it's not really olive oil, it's just called that.) There is also another called "Carrot Oil" that works great too.

5. Style using a nice smoothing balm or curl cream (depending on your look.) Use something that has a little bit of hold, or flexible holding product in it. You might try a nice spray gel or setting lotion foam.

6. Special Tip: Silicon based gels/balms/creams will work when you initially use them, but, they also tend to to flatten the hair as well. And, I have also experienced my hair still feeling dry even with their use after a few hours. Because honestly they're NOT moisturizers. Oils and Silicons do not moisturize the hair. WATER moisturizes the hair. Oil and Silicons simply "lock-in" whatever moisture you do have in your hair, in your hair.

To Summarize:
-Get a Good Cut
-Do a Deep Conditioner Everytime you "Wash" your Hair
-Use Leave-In Conditioner too
-Style your hair with moisturizing holding products

Answer 3

try the sun-silk,,,leave in conditioner,,,,it works great, it weird that the creams and serums don't work for you. try heating up Olive oil in the microwave, then apply it to your hair, leave it on for a hour, make sure its not to hot, warm is good, then wash hair thoroughly with shampoo, and apply conditioner, leave conditioner on for 10 min, rinse, then apply a leave in,,,,i think this will help alot

Answer 4

I suggest Miss Jessie's product line. I don't know where you are at, but they have a salon in NYC, but they sell their products on the internet and have retail locations as well. Check out their web page. They can definitely help they specialize in curly hair.

Answer 5

ok i have the same problem its awsome knowing im not the only one with the problem but i no this sounds gross but use mayo and let it sit for 20 minutes then wawsh it out and go on with your regular shower (shampoo conditioner) and if it poofy im still stuck on that i got rid of my frizzy now mines still poofy and wavey i used to have frizzy wavey poofy hair now its just poofy and wavey

good luck

Answer 6

i know it sounds gross but put mayo and 1 egg in a bowl beat it together and let it sit on your hair a while the wash it will make your hair soft and shiney then after to keep it up try VO5 hot oil treatments

Answer 7

You can wet your hair and put on some mayonnaise for ten minutes...This softens the hair follicles, and brings the shein back to your hair...Be sure to wash it out thoroughly, so no one mistakes you for a sandwich...

Answer 8

My wife uses Nexus VersaStyler.

Answer 9

get a haircut and cut off the ends - that is what the fly aways are - the dead ends.

Answer 10

silk gloss and a flat iron should do the trick.