what can i do ? she has total disregard about anyone else around her, she's loud, obnoxious,she over worries about her looks instead of focusing in school, she has been kicked out of like 5 schools and keeps telling my mom 2 switch her to a new one. What can i do? she disobeys all the time and when im talking to her she looks away or when i tell her to do something she goes and does something else. Like to pick up her dirty dishes and my niece's pamper she said they were mine!!! and i just saw her eating and changin our niece, shes a total dumbasss i hate her, she cant focus for crap cus shes always thinking about guys or if her make up is on right. She's a freshman again this year she's an embarrasement, what to do ?? she disobeys my mom and everyone, even if u yell at her, i feel like kicking her assss
2006-08-25 09:56:12 · 9 answers · asked by sourgirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Im 14 and im more mature than her. And i will try that pillow therapy. And no she's not hot. she has a little beer belly
2006-08-25 10:05:28 · update #1
Well, It's a obvious scream for attention from your sister and kicking her butt will re leave u but it won't help her try and build a relationship with her she is not going to respect someone she don't know gain her confidence really build a relationship with her you don't know what her world is like she is dealing with sex,drugs and of course with boys who just want to get in her pants man dude help help her out take her to a movie make her feel special other wise any old boy is gonna come and say how cute she is and there goes her panties, THINK ABOUT IT!!!!!!!
2006-08-25 10:10:03 · answer #1 · answered by wisewomaninthewest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I have a 15 yr old daughter that acts that way to her brother, and some like that to me. I as a mother feel like jacking her up. But I love her and really do want her to do well. Does your mother realize that she treats you this way? With all the things going on in your life you don't need your sisters stress also, so heres what you do. You go to your mother and tell her that you need to sit down one on one and talk with her. Explain in a calm voice how you feel about sis and that from now on you are going to ignore her. Tell her that you will pick up after yourself, and do your chores without being told so that if there are dishes or objects laying around they will be sisters. Let her yell and go on, she is wanting someone to fight with her. There are people in this world that are not happy unless all around them are miserable also. Acting this way will piss her off more, because right now she is getting the reaction that she wants. When she yell at you, just say softly ok, or right, and walk away. Yelling back ar fighting only causes more stress in the house and will cause mom to be unhappy. People know when moms not happy, aint nobody happy, so walk away and make her look like the fool. Its hard but you can do it.
2006-08-25 17:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by FANNY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee such love from a sister, maybe she gets her low sense of self-esteem from some of your nasty comments, ya think huh?
If you have nothing else going for you , you'll try all the negative attention you can get just to get any attention.
The kid sounds like she needs help more than having her #@% kicked.
I'm sure the school has talked to your mother about your sister's behaviour. Is she getting any kind of counselling? Does she have any one in the family she feels she can actually talk to and who might be in her corner?
If she wears too much makeup, why not take her somewhere where they can show her how to apply it properly?
Perhaps she is emulating her bad language from the people she hangs around with, in the family as well as outside of it.
It's generally known in psychological circles that the kid who is made out to be the villian and troublemaker, is usually symptomatic of what goes on inside the family.
I think you all need some family counselling, not just her. Maybe if you guys acted like you gave a damn about her , she'd start giving a damn about herself.
2006-08-25 17:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by Lizzy-tish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your sister and if her caring about her looks bothers you so bad then why do you do the same thing (i,e; "no she is not hot, she has a beer belly").. If she doesn't have respect for her family members and has no regards towards others; that's your moms job to discipline her. Her behavior, although annoying to you, really isn't something you can fix becuase you are her sister (and younger sibling at that). Instead of worrying about HER worry about yourself and ignore her.
2006-08-25 17:18:07 · answer #4 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a pillow...and a little pressure if she bothers you that much.
2006-08-25 17:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by Trimere 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she sounds like a young kid, whats your excuse
2006-08-25 17:00:23 · answer #6 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be glad to take her off of your hands...
Is she hot?
2006-08-25 17:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she might have a medical problem.... you should check it out
2006-08-25 17:03:16 · answer #8 · answered by Laur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok
2006-08-25 17:02:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋