I know this sounds crazy. I have a nice life. I own a big, new, house....a descent job, nice car, good friends, and I've dated alot over the years. BUT whenever I see a happy couple in public, or attractive women, I feel I deserve to have them. Like every woman out there should belong to me. I feel like Saddam in that manor. It must be a sickness, but a few of my closest friends feel the same way. And they are both married. In fact most other men I ask this to feel the same way. If somebody has something you don't at that exact moment why is there that burning desire to possess it?!?
2006-08-25 09:49:53 · 18 answers · asked by lvillejj 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
jeez, thats tough, but there is something missing in your life. what that is..???? somewhere you are not getting what you really need to be happy. it could be that perfect person, or something that you need or want to do. until you figure that out and find it, you may envy those that you think have it. it could be religion, or something you don't like about yourself. sit back, relax and run it over in your mind for awhile, and it will probibly smack you in the head...good luck.
2006-08-25 10:01:45 · answer #1 · answered by puertoricanhusker85 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its natural. You sound like the typical man, just face reality. If you want something you have to work for it, the way you worked for a nice house nice car, good friends. Dont go into a relationship with the attitude of I deserve you cause any self-respecting woman will give you the back hand for that..
2006-08-25 16:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are never satisfied...they have nice things and lots of "toys" but all that is an attempt to fill an emotional need that they haven't put their finger on...
As Steven Wright says "You can't have everthing. Where would you put it?"
It's not uncommon for people who have a lot, to think they deserve or ought to have everything they want. The world doesn't generally work that way.
It's WHO you are that makes you a kewl (or unkewl) person, not what you have.
Be a person with high self esteem (not ego)...be confident (not arrogant), and happy...people will be drawn to you...it won't take long then for you to have your pick of women...
2006-08-25 16:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are insecure about yourself and think things and beautiful women will make you happier and more of a man. You have a hole somewhere in you that you are trying to fill. Until you figure out what it is, you are always going to feel this way. ALL men don't feel like this, I know for a fact my husband doesn't.
2006-08-25 16:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well try asking yourself this questions "Why am I feeling this way?" If you do know the answer well try to solve it, you can't hide from this problem for the rest of your life... It's hard yes I know, but if you try and solve this problem by asking yourself a question like that, than you will probably solve it. If you are a single maybe find someone that you love really much.
2006-08-25 16:54:29 · answer #5 · answered by sherry_pucca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a confident person? Sometimes it can affect your very existance. I know many men that have what you do, and a beautiful woman. And it still is not enough. They do not seem confident in who they are.
Try feeling more confident about who you are, and what you have. Feel as though you are on top of the world, and it just might work.
2006-08-25 16:56:26 · answer #6 · answered by shewolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its just something that you want and dont have...
It sounds normal to me you sound like you have alot of things that alot of others dont have maybe you should think yourself lucky and be happy with what you have. Sounds like you have done well for yourself
2006-08-25 16:54:27 · answer #7 · answered by dizzymooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't suffer from that affliction, luckily.
I'm happy with what I have, and really enjoy my life. Which is simple, and not particularly luxurious.
Toys are not what makes me happy. (toys being either luxeries, technology, people to manipulate, or other things)
Sounds like you are not grounded, happy with yourself, or mature. You've got a rough row to hoe...
2006-08-25 16:53:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its the challenge. Or the grass is greener theory. It definitely is a guy thing. Good luck with that hun!
2006-08-25 16:56:13 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first thing you need to do,is to settle to hell down! now you are (insecure) as simple as that! you need to grow up, dont feel like just because i've had Every women on this planet, mean's you should! you need self estem! and to get that you first have to feel good about who you are!, if you dont love yourself,your nothing! grow up!
2006-08-25 16:56:53 · answer #10 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋