My boyfriend has been secretly talking to another girl several times a day on the phone. She's married, we live together. Caught him - he says she's just like one of the guys, hid it because he knew I'd be mad. He's always working, doesn't have alot of time between work and home. Is he cheating or just friends?
2006-08-25 09:41:14 · 16 answers · asked by IMT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her
2006-08-25 09:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by miz_kaila 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd keep a close eye on him. Does he work late? Call him at work one night on his work phone (not cell) and see if he is really there. I'd just keep an eye out for new perfume scents, expensive gifts being purchased on credit cards, lots of traveling during the weekends, etc. Still don't accuse him of anything, he could be telling the truth. Try asking her or her husband (maybe he suspects the same thing??) Good luck.
2006-08-25 16:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by Karina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to chose. Get rid of the competition. Lol. Okay seriously wouldn't this "friend" be cautious of the fact he is married. If you were in her position would you ask question if you were friends and would you talk to him all the time when he is a married man. Sit him down and talk.
2006-08-25 16:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by rancherogirl351 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl hate to tell you but he's definitely cheating,I mean why would he hide something like that.And he can't be working that much and what's all this abut him not having time for you ain't no such thing,you need to to find someone who has time for you,who is honest,sensitive to your needs and who doesn't sneak around just to be friends with a female.
2006-08-25 17:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by Teyawanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 to 1 she is just a friend.... And it seems you are the jealous type... jealous of any girls that he may know....
So instead of dealing with the drama he didn't say anything...
For him so say she's just one of the guys.... That is all that he sees her as... You have no worries...
You yourself say he's always working and that he doesn't have anytime... So you honestly don't think he's cheating...
2006-08-25 16:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by txdivinegrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who really knows which one it is but are you ok with the fact that he continues to do something he knows you wont like and lies about it ? What if one day he feels like sleeping with another girl ? Will he just do it because he wants to and lie to you about it ?
2006-08-25 16:45:08 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not a good situation....the fact that he's hiding it from you is very concerning and suspicious. I wonder how he would feel if you were doing the same?
2006-08-25 16:45:45 · answer #7 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends wouldn't need to lie would he? C'mon u know the answer
2006-08-25 16:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the girl.
2006-08-25 17:02:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry he's probably cheating and f*cking it up for the nice guys out there that won't cheat!
2006-08-25 16:43:37 · answer #10 · answered by num1accent01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him AMF (Adios, Mother F&ck$r)!!!
2006-08-25 16:49:16 · answer #11 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋