I trust my boyfriend 10000% i know he would never do anything with anyone or anything like that. He is my best friend and i come to him for every little thing. He is the only one right now that i completely trust with everything. I hate that i get jealous over him and other girls because its not right. He should have freedom to do whatever and he does, but i cant help but feel jealous, im trying to improve myself i have come to realize i am insecure, anyone advice?
2006-08-25 09:33:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, you have to believe deep down inside that you are a good, worthwhile, valuable, lovable human being. You don't think that now, do you? Somewhere down there you wonder why he would love you, right?
2006-08-25 09:37:39 · answer #1 · answered by DelK 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you give him the freedom to do what ever he does, don't be surprised that he really does what ever he wants to do. Deep inside you may not trust...don't you think sometimes"what is he doing? Who is he with?? Your feelings are perfectly normal. I think you have the right to get upset if you think that he meets other girls or is flirtatious with them.
You should not be so hard on yourself. A little jealousy is normal. And I also would not be so focused on only one person. Did you ever ask your boyfriend how he feels about it that he is the only one and that you go to him for every little thing??? He might be a little overwhelmed. Look for more friends and learn about trust and trusting others and yourself.
2006-08-25 09:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by Angel****1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little jealousy is normal in relationships but if it something that is making you think longer than what you should then it probably falls into the insecure category. Did you have bad relationships in the past? Has your current boyfriend ever told you about previous indiscretions he had committed in the past with other girls? All these things factor in. If you really trust him then you should have nothing to worry about.
2006-08-25 09:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by daguy28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only have one thing to say...you don't really trust him otherwise you wouldn't be feeling like this. You know sometimes people feel insecure and get jealous to cover up something they are doing behind closed doors. Think about it!
2006-08-25 09:49:56 · answer #4 · answered by Honey Eyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get a little jealous when my wife talks to the gardener, the plumber, the car salesman, the next door neighbor, her friend's husband. What you are experiencing is normal...it shows you care about him. Jealousy does not always mean insecurity.
2006-08-25 09:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by Answers1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might feel like that bcuz you know that he's a good guy and that many girls would fall for him. Its normal to feel jealous but try to feel confidence. Dont let jealousy ruin the beautiful relationship u have with him. Rememeber you have him not them.. Wish u the best!!
2006-08-25 09:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, as a woman, you need to realize that females belong to the man, not vice versa. That is why men can have multiple wives but it is wrong for women to have multiple husbands. I think that if you start thinking like that then you will be less jealous.
2006-08-25 09:41:21 · answer #7 · answered by Sandstorm222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're jealous because you know how scandalous women can be. I think it's ok to keep an eye out. Sometimes when I get jealous, I just think, "that girl is just gonna make me look better to him."
2006-08-25 09:39:02 · answer #8 · answered by Megan K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You overreacted. She would desire to be buddies with him. in spite of everything she does artwork with him. in basic terms through fact she smiled and reported "hi" does not recommend she meant on stealing your boyfriend. you need to no longer of yelled at your boyfriend and refused to no longer consult with him, through fact your blowing issues way out of proportions. Does your boyfriend get jealous while a eye-catching guy out of your artwork smiles and says "hi" to you? seem at what you reported above and picture that a stranger wrote it. What suggestion would you supply the stranger in this occasion? Then stick to the advice to your self.
2016-12-17 17:13:16 · answer #9 · answered by maffia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal at times to feel jealousy but if it is controlling your life and affecting your relationship, this would be something that you need to work on yourself. It is personal issue and it may be based on past issues.
2006-08-25 09:38:58 · answer #10 · answered by latina311204 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋