I think it's rude. I mean, don't I look good enough? He doesn't break his neck when I'm around to look, but I see his eyeballs wonder from time to time
2006-08-25 09:25:20 · 26 answers · asked by Mocha Choco Latte 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
we can't help it. afterwords we even fell sick about doing it, but men just can't help it.
i don't think you should take it personally
2006-08-25 09:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's a man thing!!! Truthfully it is all about hormones and ego. All men and I do mean "ALL" men will look at other women. Don't be threatened by it, just get used to it, otherwise you will have a hard time keeping a relationship going. If he isn't touching or chasing these other women don't worry about it. As long as he is coming home to you, you have nothing to worry about. I've been married for 17 years and my hubby still "looks" at other women, no biggy, just learn to blow it off and go on, if you ignore it, it won't bother you so much. GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-25 22:38:43 · answer #2 · answered by chulita 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean "Even christian men"?
Just looking at women, doesn t make any man a pervert. One looks at anything which is beautiful. Men are born to like the beauty in the world. Women want to look beautiful. Women want their beauty appreciated. If not, then why do they spend so much time and money on beauty care products and looking good.
Of course, anyone who flaunts their bits will naturally attact everyone's attention, not just men.
2006-08-25 16:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by Eyedoc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So are you trying to say you don't look at other men? You know, before you accuse other people of doing something, you had better make sure you are not guilty of doing the same thing.
And I hate to make general statements, but some of the women on Yahoo answers are really ungrateful and sexist. And to think us guys get most of the flack for being like that.
2006-08-25 20:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by I'm Still Here 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've never known a man that doesn't look.The thing is how discreet they are and that they don't make it obvious to the woman they're with that they are looking My guy and I have been together 10 years I never even suspected he looked at other woman until one day I paid attention because a half naked woman went flaunting by.We had a long talk after that and I know I have nothing to worry about .It's their nature.
2006-08-25 16:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by locksniffer 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A simple and honest answer to your query follows: Men look at women in admiration of the art God created in them. even Christian men will notice a good looking lady. there is no disrespect intended toward the one they are with in this case yourself; it is simply that Women are a gift to man form God almighty and will be gazed upon until the end of time as the masterpiece of God's art that they and you are. this does not however grant the man the right to lusting after the masterpiece of God's artwork.
2006-08-25 16:38:20 · answer #6 · answered by JesusISdMaster 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Men do not have as much control of themselves as women. That could be the product of a lack of self-control training as children or it could be genetic.
But don't take it personally, because it isn't about whether you look good enough. It is automatic.
2006-08-25 16:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by grdnoviz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men look at other women.
Some women look at other men
Some men don't look at other women.
Some women don't look men.
It seems that more men look than women. I think it is because it is more culturally acceptable.
It is rude to stare.
Being a people watcher, I look at everyone, men and women, in a non-sexual manner. I try not to get caught.
You may be better looking than the women that he is looking at. I look at some men and think, "He doesn't look as good as my husband."
2006-08-25 16:56:29 · answer #8 · answered by metamorphosisa 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Curiosity. That's the main thing girls complain about me and it drives me nuts. I seriously don't mind when they gawk at other men.
And being a christian has nothing to do with anything. A lot of pedophiliacs and pervs are christian.
2006-08-25 16:32:11 · answer #9 · answered by malingenie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is still human. I would be feeling funny if he didn't look. As long as he is being respectful, find something else to worry about. Oh yeah I still look too!!!! Oh yeah for the chick up their being Muslim is a religion, not a RACE!!! If ignorance is bliss you should be smiling from ear to ear!!!
2006-08-25 17:44:23 · answer #10 · answered by RedDreads 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They're men-- they're bound to look from time to time. but if he does it right in front of you, I agree with you, it is rude. So give him a taste of his own medicine next time--check out all the hot guys you see right in front of him. Hopefully, that'll teach him to keep his eyes on only you.Good luck!!!
2006-08-25 16:34:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋