You know how you might see a cute girl in one of your classes. but she sits across the room, and you catch her looking your way a few times. but you're too far away from her to talk to her and you'd feel weird if you got up and moved away; because what if her looking in your direction didnt mean anything at all??.. or how about when youre walking in the mall and you see a girl and she kinda glances your way, but youre unsure if she's looking at you or if she's just simply looking around.
what are some signs to help us guys know that you girls are interested in us or think we're attractive. cause sometimes we need those confidence boosters that make you realize "hey, i can get a girl!" girl's arent the only ones with low self asteem in appearance! help us out!
2006-08-25 09:12:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well just cause a girl looks at you it dosnt mean that she thinks your attractive. she could be like, "damn look at that ugly kid" But i saw your pic (if thats you) and you dont look ugly so this is my opinion.
Next time you see that girl looking at you wave hi, if she waves hi back, then she was looking at YOU. Not just looking around. then go talk to her. Dont be like "hey i saw you looking at me, wanna date" Its all about casual conversation. And dont be cocky cause i hate guys like that.
Girls in the malls? This is what ive noticed. If a girl looks at you then looks away. She was just looking. If a girl looks at your face, then looks down at your "shoes" she could be checking you out, maybe not. If she looks at you and holds your gaze until its impossible to move your eyes without moving your head, then she was most likely checking you out. Thats what I think though.
Good luck!
2006-08-25 09:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This isn't what you're looking for, but I think it's what you need. Don't care. Don't care if she is attracted to you. Just assume she will be, and in time many that initially aren't WILL be. The fact is that if you're not very attractive, you won't attract a lot of women with your looks. So what? That doesn't mean you have to wait for that one in a hundred who thinks you're cute. Women don't value appearance of thier partner nearly as highly as men do anyways, although western societies are starting to condition them that way.
Your best bet is to realize that just as you reject women for all sorts of fickle nonsensical reasons without a second thought, so too should you consider it irrelevant when you are rejected. Just get out there and start swinging! .. Smile, be positive, funny and brief. Fake confidence until you have it. .. Even if you're a goof, you've got a chance, but staying 50 feet away wondering what she's thinking will get you nowhere.
Good luck dude! :D
P.S. try not to care so much. If you are clingy or appear desperate it will make her really uncomfortable.. Try to have fun with it and don't worry about the what ifs.. ( until sex of course ha ha! )
2006-08-25 09:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by moment_in_passing 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well lets see! lol at least from my own perspective, i know that if i sneaked a few looks at you during class or anywhere else then that definetely means i think you're worth looking at..lol so that would mean i think you're attractive. now if i smile at you than that's something you should do something about :-) maybe just say hi more or ask a question about an assignment.. act like you need my help and i'll come to the rescue :-P
2006-08-25 09:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by marta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she looks @ u and u hold a glace ( liek for 2 -3 sec) and then she looks a little to the side of u little ( left or right).. that will usually mean that she wants to get ur attention without looking to obviouis...but if she is looking around @ other places BE4 she looks @ u, and then has a 1-2 sec glance, and then she keeps looking away.. she probably doesnt want ur attention
i hope u understand what i wrote.. good luck
2006-08-25 09:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by Lovely<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was glancing at a guy once and turned away when he caught me but then when he turned around i was still staring and again he caught me and smiled and asked for my number. If she is looking then she is interested. Go for it u just gotta be smooth talkin
2006-08-25 09:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've caught her looking a few times, it's not just coincidence. You learn to pick up on these things when they happen to you enough. Looks and eye contact are HUGE things, don't underestimate them. Next time you catch her looking, smile and wink.
2006-08-25 09:18:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she waves, nods, or smiles at you or something she may like you. Or if she is always looking at you when you pass by then giggles with her friends. So ask her to the dance or prom... or on a date. You never know she may say yes!
2006-08-25 09:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by Coco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know she will look at you smile be a little nervous maybe,eye contact. Dont worry about it just see how things go if she likes you im sure she will let you know
2006-08-25 09:17:59 · answer #8 · answered by dizzymooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she looks at u n smiles then she likes but watch out some girls like 2 tease guys
2006-08-25 09:19:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you see a girl looking at you and she is not frowning that means she thinks your hot.
2006-08-25 09:21:54 · answer #10 · answered by KayDaviam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋