Help i really don't know what to do?

Question

I was dating this guy and we brokeup because it was best for our relationship well four months later we can't move on from each others and i love him so much but i have no desire to be with him well i just graduate hs and hes about to be a junior and i think were both to immature to be with each others well i enlisted in the USAF and i'm leaving in a few weeks and i don't want to lost contact with him and he told me he doesn't want to give up and will i wait for him until he gradutes from high school but i also want us to really be in love not just holding on to nothing but also there's that possiblity of one of us finding other people and i'm afraid of that happening and i don't want that to happen and i wish things can stay the same but they can't and i don't know if i should give it up and move on i'm trying to i know i'm young and don't know love but anyone with a heart knows when they love someone

Answer 1

baby girl, yes, you are in love. this will be a long distance relationship, and you know that it will take a full commitment from both of you to make it works. don't be the victim; take command of the situation. either let him go. if it meant to be it meant to be. keep your option open. after two years time there are lots of things can happen, to both of you. you did the right thing by giving both an open relationship until you actually can take him seriously. deal with the heartache for now; it's the by-product of falling in love.

Answer 2

My dear please believe me when I say it is best to go into the service single. Just get ready to open your self to a hole new world I was in the air force myself it's a great branch of the service. Your going to see new things meet new people You will have no time to think about home I guaranty it. Once you get through basic training your on your way. Good luck to you