or even just for hot naughty conversations? I know it does not sound right, but we are both alone and lonely... He has humiliated me a lot, told me to get lost, etc. but I really dont have anyone right now. At least with him it is safe cause he is disease free and vasectomized...
2006-08-25 08:52:44 · 34 answers · asked by Graça 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it doesn't sound right so it probably doest feel right ether hes told you to get lost it would be just another way for him to humiliate you just using you for sex.its time to move on get out with your friends more try,singles group activities,church,dating service,etc be patient somone will come along
2006-08-25 09:07:40 · answer #1 · answered by know it all 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds good to me but only if can keep from getting emotionally entangled again. Often when you are an 'ex', the frustrations of being in love and what didnt work is/are gone. If you are truly an ex and sex was good, why deprive yourself. But if you are looking at this as a doorway back to a relationship with this person, be very careful. You are an ex for a reason or many reasons.
2006-08-25 08:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by juncogirl3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know that it seems its the right thing to do but i really do think it is not what you should do especially when you two had a relationship the reason why is because you said it yourself he told you to get lost why because he dont want to be bothered with you anymore i think you shouldn't even talk to him he is only going to use you for sex and when he see another hot chick guess what he's not going to be interested in you anymore so the best thing to do sweetie is too move ahead remember we woman have alot of power and it does not have to be between the legs all the time good luck.
2006-08-25 09:05:00 · answer #3 · answered by honey bun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean if your both over the whole thing.... And you both know that it is comfort sex... Then havin a little sex and naughty talk now and then isn't bad.....
I mean maybe you two weren't meant to be a couple.... But if the sex is good... go for it! What ever takes away that lonely feeling...
Just don't regret it... I mean never regret what you do! if you think that you would regret it... Then don't do it!
2006-08-25 08:59:24 · answer #4 · answered by txdivinegrl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, no, no. Just don't go there. Going back to your ex for sex always leads to bad endings and broken hearts. If you have some serious urges go buy a nice dildo. if you want a loving man, keep an eye out. You never know when the best guy ever will show up. Good luck.
2006-08-25 08:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by Karina 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he has been mean to you in the past, he does not deserve you. I don't think you should give in no matter how lonely you are. He is using you and even if you tell yourself you are using him too, maybe part of you will cling to the hope that he has changed and it will be better. Sex for convenience is never a good idea, someone will get hurt. You never know, while you are screwing him, the guy of your dreams could be knocking on your door....
2006-08-25 08:58:19 · answer #6 · answered by Smilingcheek 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with going back with an ex for sex but its only ok with an ex who treated you good. I wouldn't have sex with an ex who treated me badly. I'd rather masturbate or find someone new. Either way you should be wearing a condom. You have no idea what your ex is doing when your not around.
2006-08-25 09:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No cuz it's just going to get worse. Go out and have some fun with friends. Get you mind off of him and sex for a while. Go out and enjoy what you like to do. Never go back to an ex for anything! Good Luck.
2006-08-25 08:58:02 · answer #8 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don' t think he is worth it. A boyfriend shouldn't humiliate u or tell u to get lost, I know u r lonely now, but who knows u might find Mr. right someday. So don't stick with him if i were u.
2006-08-25 08:57:26 · answer #9 · answered by Kat 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
A man will never go away as long as you are boinking him, if he mistreated you before he will again.It does make for some hot but incredibility sad sex, plan on lots of crying.
2006-08-25 09:05:50 · answer #10 · answered by gobobgo55 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋