My boyfriend of 10 years wants me to go another disaster of a vacation, driving 3 young boys half way around the u.s to see his mother who doesn't even like me. Thats only half of it, I have to get a new vehicle because he wants to pick up his brother half way there, pay for half the expenses, and I usually cry the whole time i am around his mother because i can't do anything right. Would you go??
2006-08-25 08:44:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I thought you couldn't get off work that week. Boss just won't let you!
2006-08-25 08:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by JC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be great to spend time with somebody you love on a vacation, but I would explain to him that you don't feel comfortable going on a vacation where you don't have fun and it costs you money. Or you could lie to him and say you cannot take the time off of work!
2006-08-25 08:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by Michael R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doll - when you marry this man (which you have to be thinking that he is the one, otherwise why waste your time) you are going to have to deal with the ex and the family. You marry into that too... you do not have to go on this vacation because it does sound like hell but saying no may be at the expense of losing your relationship.
2006-08-25 08:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by jessica 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you submit yourself to all that drama? I'd find something else to do and tell you honey that you'll see him when he gets back, and to enjoy.
I can't believe you've been together for 10yrs and still can't talk to him about how you feel and why without him respecting your feelings?
2006-08-25 08:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by hisladytish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is his mother would he travle fo ryours if you had to...marrige boyfirend somtimes you just have to deal with things...maybe suggest he takes the kids and you stay home and it will be likea great break from eachotehr every couple needs that
2006-08-25 08:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by mommaof2girls&1onway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you and your boyfriend need to have a long talk. Sounds like you two have some serious things to work out.
2006-08-25 08:49:57 · answer #6 · answered by cool_breeze_2444 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I probably wouldn't.
But maybe you could find something to interest you on the way. And it sounds like you need help with your social skills. Screw her if she doesn't like how you do stuff. Kill her with kindness. You're not dating her.
2006-08-25 08:47:56 · answer #7 · answered by DeadxStar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, if he's not looking out for your feelings, don't go. He may not have the capacity to add you in to his lifestyle as much as you need.
2006-08-25 08:51:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go. Tell him to invite his mother to his house and then go on your own vacation without him.
2006-08-25 08:47:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um, no. Vacations are supposed to be fun - not trying ordeals. I'd say, "Honey, I love you, but unless you want me in an asylum, please don't ask me to go."
2006-08-25 08:47:35 · answer #10 · answered by porcelina_68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋