How do I have a relationship with my girlfriend when the only time I can see her is at her job?

Question

Her family hates me because i have a criminal record

Answer 1

Awwwww. thats sad. well if you really like her your gonna just have to deal with seeing her at work until she can free up some extra time.

on another note, her family has to be some kind of ignorant, to not like you just because of your past criminal record, if your a good guy and trying to do better, and if their daughter has a good feeling about you,i dont see why they cant. unless you like killed somebody or somekind of physical abuse or somehthing.good luck!!!!!

Answer 2

Hello, I am a retired Police Officer here in the US and I can confirm to you that these types of records, for the most part, are not available to the general public. You won't be able to obtain them for free. That's the reality of it. Even if you came into the station for a particular police report to which you have a right to possess, you are often required to pay a small fee at the clerk's counter for the paperwork. There are however, to my knowledge, just a couple LEGITIMATE services that have full access to these types of records, and OFFICIAL approval/certification to provide them. The one which comes to mind is http://www.echeck.pcti-system.com - and if I recall correctly, They do provide these records at a relatively small cost.. especially considering the highly personal, confidential, or otherwise sensitive nature of the information within. Here you will find things such as:

Reverse Phone Search
Criminal Records
Inmate Records
Sex Offenders
DUI/DWI Records
Court Records
Arrest Records
Warrant Records
Police Records
Address History
Death Index
Marital Status
Relatives and Associates
Property Records
Felonies and Convictions
Alias and Date of Birth
Business Search

http://www.echeck.pcti-system.com

The only other way to obtain this type of information is to be working in certain areas of the public sector, such as Police work. Please do not use this any information you may discover for malicious purpose, as many States do provide criminal penalties under statutory law for certain acts regarding invasion of privacy. Hope this helps.

Answer 3

well if she is only letting you see her at her job and that is all don't worry about it find a differnt girlfriend and if her parents don;t like you because of your record you know that they have gotten in troubly before everyone has at least once

Answer 4

why not? as long as u still do see her,make full use of the time and as 4 her family,how COULD they ruin a relationship if it's soo wonderful and lovingly? n it's the matterbetween u n her

Answer 5

If she won't make time to see you when she isn't working, then you need to move on.
Get yourself a GF that wants to be there for you. It doesn't matter about your previous mistakes, you're doing your best to be a better person.
Life goes on, you need to get on with Your life, unless you're a stalker, then there is no hope. It won't matter what we say.

Answer 6

Honestly, unless you are deeply in love with this girl I would move on. Go find a girl with a more accepting family.

Answer 7

It's a good time to consider getting a new girlfriend.

Answer 8

Yeah, move on. The relationship will suffer in the end if you don't.

Answer 9

In your heart have you really changes? If you have time will tell, and they will see it. Just hang in their. if you love her, It is going to take time, You have to prove yourself to her parents,

Answer 10

if u really like her den find a way to make her parents like u