2006-08-25 08:27:57 · 46 answers · asked by curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Masterbating is a healthy practice. I would leave him be. Depending on how old he is maybe it;s time for a sex talk? But I think the worst thing here is his embarresment. be gentle on him. Boys are boys.
2006-08-25 08:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by Airzy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah if your name is David and you wear panties then I wouldn't think anything of it....but seriously, if you haven't talked to him about anything that goes along with growing up then I think there would no better time then now. I would personally talk with him at first make sure he doesn't feel embarrassed or anything and then go buy him a soft porn mag....or something with some girls on it...then let him know that its gross and wrong to mess with worn panties, especially ones from a close family member. But don't make a big deal about any of it, just be open for discussion.
2006-08-25 08:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by Pablo Pescado 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I re read youre question I dont know why I thought it said the kid walked in on the mom. sorry! Anyway that is normal for a young guy to be masterbating. Im not sure why he picked youre underwear maybee he thinks youre hot. I mean he isnt youre real son. Dont get me wrong I am not saying you should sleep with him. I wouldnt so that but I am sure this was woerd for both of you and it will probably be wierd for you both for a while. I walked in on my brother masterbating one time he wasnt holding anyones underwear but he wasnt hiding either. I had to stay home from school one day I dont remember why and I had gotten up to go to the bathroom. He was in the middle of the living room one morning anyway I was so imbarassed that I didnt even go to the bathroom I just turned around and went back to my room and waited for him to leave. Anyway I would just tell him its no big deal but next time he should lock the door so no one else walks in on him.
2006-08-25 08:32:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is unfortunate. I would talk to his father. Hopefully he just has a thing for women and not you in particular. That would be very helpful. I think this needs to be addressed so you can live in your home in comfort. I am so sorry. Hopefully he was only after the panties because they represent female and nothing about you. It is very possilbe this is not as perverted as it seems. I only hope that it is that way for your sake. Address this and make your husband too. You may need to involve a counsellor. If the son does this behavior he beter get ready to be called on it. He may only need to be talked to by his dad too.
2006-08-25 08:33:27 · answer #4 · answered by adobeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming the biggest problem you have is the worn panties, there fore go and get some new ones. By the way knock next time.
2006-08-25 08:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do your laundry more often how do we know that he wasn't wading through piles of your worn panties just to get through the room just kidding. that is a tough one hes got to be terribly embarrassed by this have his father talk to him sounds like he's growing up and he's found out about this mysterious new thing i think his father should have him apologize to you for invading your privacy and not locking the door this will embarrass him even more but he needs to know his boundary's the embarrassment might drive the point home
2006-08-25 08:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by know it all 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. This is a normal phase of development. Maybe not using your panties. Discourage this but gently. A boy of that age is likely to be confused and finding his sexuality.Have his Dad talk to him
2006-08-25 08:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by mjdp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to the women who answered your question. Its normal for a teen boy to do this. He just used your old stockings because they were worn. The only thing you should do is tell him to be careful of who's in the house.
2006-08-25 08:31:50 · answer #8 · answered by Derrick T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, learn how to spell masturbating. Second, don't leave your worn panties lying around. Third, forget about what you saw - you're too old and wrinkled to keep his interest.
2006-08-25 08:31:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ew. he probably likes you. i hope the panties he had were washed at least. Maybe you should confront him about it and ask him why he had them but if thats to embarrassing for the both of you maybe you should snoop through his stuff and see if you find anything about him having a crush on you.
2006-08-25 08:32:11 · answer #10 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋