I like this guy and i wanted to know how to ask him out without getting embarssed or too shy to ask him out
What should i do!??
2006-08-25 08:23:39 · 23 answers · asked by Emily 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just make it an easy out...
Say "hey ____, want to go to a movie/party/etc on ___?"
If he gives you a look like hes about to say no, just tack on the ever trusted, "a whole group of us are getting together, you should invite some people too"
Make sure its something you know hes interested in too...
Then you are asking,but you have an out and a reason why you invited HIM specifically...
2006-08-25 08:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him a sweet little note. go slowly, make it fun and make the flirting last a little while. that's the best part. It will make him crazy for you. Say something a little sassy and then walk away. It will leave him wanting more. Don't hang around him too long at one time. Make a little small talk. Give him a few prolonged seconds of deep eye contact , say something flirty and just walk away. look back over your shoulder and just keep on walking. Since you're kind of shy , you won't feel embarrassed. You can say whatever and then walk away he won't see that your ready to pass out. It will give you time to regroup and catch your breath. one little step at a time sister.
I guarantee you won't have to wait long . He'll ask you out and you won't have to worry about it.
he will love it.
2006-08-25 15:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by mylady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and and ask, the worst that can happen is, he will say no. Never be to shy to ask someone out cause it might be the right guy for you. Just talk to him and say I was wondering what your doing this weekend, maybe we can hook up and have dinner or something, what do you like to do. then just go from there. You will be able to tell if he is interested from that point on. Good luck sweetie.
2006-08-25 15:27:43 · answer #3 · answered by grrrrme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out on a group date at first, see if you get along. Then after a couple dates ask him if he wants to go to the movies, just the two of you. You'll never know if you don't ask! Go for it and good luck!
2006-08-25 15:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by Karina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm going through pretty much the same thing right now. What u should do is just go up to him when he is alone and ask him out and if he says no its not the end of the world...and u guys can still be friends.
2006-08-25 15:26:53 · answer #5 · answered by homie-G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really should become friends first. The same thing happened to me..and after we became friends he actually asked me out...We've been going out for a good 2 1/2 years now. Yea....it takes a little while longer..but trust me...it's worth the wait. Good Luck!
2006-08-25 15:27:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask him out...Let him ask you out. Guys like to do the pursuing, and let's face it we like to play a little hard to get. They like a challenge. You want to know that he is really interested in you before you go out don't you? So, hold back a little, flirt, smile alot and wait for him to make his move...
2006-08-25 22:39:47 · answer #7 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should just go to him and start talking about something like school, what he like to do with his spare time, do he have a girlfriend and things like that..And as the conversation gets deeper ask him out.
2006-08-25 15:31:27 · answer #8 · answered by LaCheryl W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you know him already? If you've talked to him before, it'd be good to ask him to hang out sometime, maybe go eat or something. Ask him what he likes to do. Remember, guys like girls who enjoy the same things as them, so even if you don't like what he does, try it anyway and that'll show you're interested. If you don't know him, go up and introduce yourself and let him know you noticed him. If you're too shy to actually go up to him, make eye contact and smile at him, see what he does.
2006-08-25 15:28:04 · answer #9 · answered by *♥T0mb0ygirlygurl♥* 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try asking him out with a group of friends first...try dinner or the movies.
2006-08-25 15:26:05 · answer #10 · answered by qtpie2526 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋