should i be worried?

Question

my bf works for the hilton and on labor ay weekend he works this convention for the hotel . he stays there all weekend cause its alot of hours, he just told me that he has to share a room with this girl he works with and he shared it with her last year too, but nothing happened. they did however hook up once last january when they were drunk. they kissed . i been with him since april, should i be worried about this cause i am

Answer 1

All relationships are built on trust. If you can't trust him... it isn't much of a relationship. If he says nothing will happen, nothing will happen.

Answer 2

YES!! I think if he HAD to share a room with someone,he could find another male to start with. They've already hooked up once,even if they were drunk,so what's to keep them apart staying the weekend in a hotel room? I'm sure the Hilton isn't MAKING him share a room with a female! Too many liabilities there. That may just be his way of thinking he's screwing around behind your back,but not really since you know he's in the same room as her. Ask him if you can come along. Pop in when he's not expecting you! I've known very few male and female friendships that something,big or small,hasn't happened. There's a certain amount of intimacy that's shared when staying in close quarters like that with someone. Showering,using the bathroom,dressing,etc. I definitely think there's cause for some worry. Good luck!

Answer 3

I think that the situation is very inappropriate. Do you trust him? If he's never done anything to betray your trust, you should make him aware of that, so he doesn't feel like you're accusing him of something he hasn't even had the chance to do! Then, let him know that you are uncomfortable with him staying with this girl. Alone. Maybe one of the other employees could bunk with them, or you could visit? I'm surprised that the hotel would arrange the two of them in such a way. Not professional. Good luck!

Answer 4

You have a right to be worried about this. I would be worried if my girl had to share a room with some guy she worked with.
Just talk to your man about your concern and call him every once in a while to see how things are going.

Answer 5

Oh man, that's not a good sign. He has no right staying the weekend with another girl. He doesn't respect you at all. Why isn't he asking YOU to stay in the room with him?

Answer 6

Absolutely. It sure sounds fishy to me. I think you should get a room and have him stay with you. If he says he he can't stay with you then I would get out now! Or you could always go there and catch him in the act so you know for sure.

Answer 7

hell yea why would he share a with another girl and they hooked up once and kiss what if that happen again then what and it goes on more then kissing that is not right he should have his on room not with another girl but hey that just me

Answer 8

ask him if he minds if you stay in a hotel room w/ a guy you've hooked up w/ in the past. if he doesn't then maybe you 2 could agree to an open relationship. definitely, though, he's bangin' her. don't be naive.

Answer 9

Uh...YEAH ! Especially since they had contact before. I know, you're suppose to trust your man. It's hard to do in those circumstances. Why don't you rent a room for the night and let him in when his duties are over?

Answer 10

he "has" to share a room with her.. I don't know.. i've never heard of any compnay requiring guys to stay with girls in the same hotel room... ANY company...... red flags should be up....