Be honest.
2006-08-25 07:52:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHEN YOU KNOW SHE IS LYING TO YOU
2006-08-25 07:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by FRECKLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want honesty, well I'll give you honestly. If you have to stalk your partner to make sure she's not cheating I'd be saying that you don't have much of a relationship. Stalking is not only a crime but is a violation of another persons freedom. Grow up and be a man and talk with your woman about things that may be bothering you. Or if you feel insecure in your relationship let her know and hopefully she will relieve these insecurities. But do not turn to stalking please.
2006-08-25 14:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stalking the girlfriend? Wondering if she's cheating? Hmm. Sounds to me like the relationship is over before it's had a chance to begin with that line of thinking. Not everyone is dishonest, and not everyone cheats. I say you trust her until she gives you a reason not to. And if you can't believe what she tells you, then maybe you have a valid reason for your instincts to check up on her. If that's the case, don't. Just break it off. Spare yourself the heartache and her the headache. Things like that seldom work out.
2006-08-25 15:00:59 · answer #3 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would stalk ur gf or bf cuz then u will lose ur trust with the person that u love, so if u really lover them then i would just sit back and wait, if guys start calling the house then u know that shes cheating, but never stalk
2006-08-25 14:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by shawty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to stalk your gf? If you suspect cheating is going on, then ask. If she says no but you feel she is being dishonest, then I guess you could follow her. But what would you do if she wasn't cheating? And she knew that you followed her? Or what would you do if you seen her kissing another man? Think about the consequences, bro.
2006-08-25 14:58:16 · answer #5 · answered by cheerstoyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that that is a wise idea...If I were stalked by my bf and I found out about it, it would be the end of our relationship. To me it means that he doesn't trust you.
2006-08-25 14:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is too funny. I would say its time to start checking up when your gut tells you something is wrong. Dont just start checking up on her for no reason. If you start out with that much distrust it will only get worse. Don’t do anything until you suspect something might be going on.
2006-08-25 14:56:17 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my b/f started cheating he stopped coming home & spending time at home. He also started accusing me of cheating on him (even though my schedule made this impossible) His interest in sex (at least w/me ) became practiaclly non-existant.
Hope this helps. I wish he had come to me 1st and told me he wasn't happy instead of what he did.
2006-08-25 15:00:29 · answer #8 · answered by cindy s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't stalk her but I would definitely snoop on her cell when she's in the bathroom or something. Have a friend or someone she doesn't know do reconnaisance for you.
2006-08-25 14:55:52 · answer #9 · answered by krd12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think she is cheating on you, either she really is, or you're not ready for the relationship. Either way, you might want to think about letting her go.
2006-08-25 14:56:15 · answer #10 · answered by general_stamey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. Sooner or later, events will reveal itself. If your gut feeling is that she is cheating, then there may be truth to it. . . .unless, of course, you're afraid of your own shadow.
2006-08-25 14:56:31 · answer #11 · answered by Wondering myself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋