i have a boyfriend i've been with for 9 months my problem is that he's been in the process of getting a divorce for a year already and has 2 kids with her which i can't stand it makes me sad upset jealous everything you can think of and it makes me not want to be with him because i dont want somebody elses family and some other woman in the my life forever...now on the other side i met a new guy who's so sweet and has no (ex)wife or kids he's been in the coast guard hes smart and hes moving to the same place i am in a year...i just dont know what to do
2006-08-25 07:44:46 · 8 answers · asked by KrIsTyN 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello KrisTyN,
As a guy who had a kid from a previous marriage, I can relate to what you are going through. I would dump the guy getting the divorce and go for the guy in the Coast Guard.
When you marry a person, you marry their family too. Most second marriages that have kids end in divorce. Being a step-Mom is a thankless job, and if you honestly don't like it, you had better get out of that relationship. Good luck.
--Rick
2006-08-25 07:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want someone else's family, then it sounds like the Coast Guard guy is the one for you. Otherwise you will have to deal with the ex-wife until his kids are grown up and even after that! If you don't want it, move on!
Good Luck!
2006-08-25 14:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by Leslie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are already feeling this way then you need to get out. She is never going to be out of his life because they have kids together.
2006-08-25 14:51:33 · answer #3 · answered by mandyunknown1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the gold, girlie; get this idiot(who lacked the decency to not have another g/f while he was still married!) out of ur life; if u think this C.G. guy has promise, go for it!
2006-08-25 14:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by Ayumi 23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is an obvious question - if you don't want all that baggage - move away from it sweetie. on the other hand if u think u are in love or something and you think you could work around it, then do the obvious.
2006-08-25 14:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by arlene j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried not asking someone from yahoo! anwsers?
2006-08-25 14:51:16 · answer #6 · answered by prophetoftruth 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you and I should hook up
2006-08-29 14:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well go for the new guy idk, u should know, not us
2006-08-25 14:52:17 · answer #8 · answered by carlosofia2000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋