the guy i love tells my sis that he lovesme but he doesnt act it, i love him alot and i started writing poems 3 days after i met him, my poems touch evryone heart but i never tell them who they are about. right now he is commited to a but he says he will never marry her in two years. he is 16 i am 14 there is also a law here saying that we cant date buti dont know if he will wait untill sweetsixteen to date me. what should i do? his name is matt. mine is chevon.
2006-08-25 07:40:47 · 11 answers · asked by poetryslame200 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-25 07:51:32 · update #1
If it is meant to be it will. Don't you want a guy who wants you?? It sounds like he is not leaving his current relationship anytime soon. You have to tell him you like him and see what happens from there.
2006-08-25 07:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by JenUs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, Chevon. Girl, u're only 14...go out with guys, and your friends, and have fun. That's what it's about. The poems are a great way to get out your feelings in a creative way...it's awesome that you're talented. If he's committed to someone else, or is even thinking about someone else...don't waste your time on him. There are SO many other guys out there that won't add drama to your life. I know u love him, but dont' get stuck only on him. Go out there and explore, dont' get hooked on any one person at this time in your life. =)
2006-08-25 07:48:00 · answer #2 · answered by Snki55ed Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the mean time just date. Thats what I would do if I was u. And if he can't wait for u then just move on and he will move on.Theres not that big of an age difference I daited someone who was 15 when I was 12. The guy is only 2years older its not like he is 20 or 40 years older than u.
2006-08-25 07:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chevon....girl, you're 14. If he gets with you he could go to jail. Now at 14, you can have as many boyfriends as you want, not limit yourself to one. Having a boyfriend doesn't mean you're married...it doesn't mean that for him either. Just be friends with Matt for the time being, and friends with other guys too. Keep the sex to yourself and when you're older, you'll be happy and mature enough to really have a boyfriend.
2006-08-25 07:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be in love right now,but sometimes you can fall out of love too. Right now it may seem hard to understand, but try. At 14 you probably have a few heart brakes.It's part of grown-up.If he really loves you he will wait. Just go ahead and enjoy being 14.
2006-08-25 07:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys tells u what u wanna here, you don't know if he will leave his girlfriend to be with you. Of course he is going to tell your sista he loves you that is your sista and he knows she is going to tell you if he is committed he needs to let you know as of now what the deal is with you and him so you want be wasting your time waiting on him and anyway voicing my opinion I would not wait on no man that is committed . He probably is using the excuse that you are to young for him to date you should wait no two years on a man. Find you a sweetheart your age and when you and him is really serious than you can marry him not right thou, your to young.
2006-08-25 07:49:10 · answer #6 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer understand... it somewhat is Why i might on no account choose Him. no one is conscious all the discomfort He Went by using and that i will't think of Myself interior the comparable challenge. in keeping with risk i might Have dealt with It In A extra aggressive way which isn't the suitable ingredient. it somewhat is Why he's My Idol, using fact no rely how many issues He Had He on no account Stopped Loving His followers.
2016-09-29 23:48:03 · answer #7 · answered by banowski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loves you he will wait otherwise he aint worth your time gurl. that happened to me he said we never got to talk enough so he just drooped me. if he just drops you then he was never worth it in the first place
2006-08-25 07:47:10 · answer #8 · answered by hatton_chic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sound like me @ dat age girl...dont wanna say something you dont wannt hear but lust not love later on it will be love and state date rules...dont worry not all state are the same
2006-08-25 07:44:22 · answer #9 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Big age diffrence there.....
Be careful.
2006-08-25 07:43:30 · answer #10 · answered by Bombenhagel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋