My name is Tim and I have been some what utterly confused for about a year and a half. Why? Because I have been trying to get with a girl that realy cant seem to find the time for me. Let me catch you up to speed. Met a girl at the beach. I was on my boat and saw a hottie sun bathing so I docked and went to meet her. About a week later I go back and see her again and went to speak to her. She was still hot and her lil sis and cuz were with her. There cute too. Anyway, I take out boat riding and the whole time it was like she was trying to hide from someone. It was her crazy *** boyfriend. All she did was stay on the phone with him and argue. I really did'nt pay it no mind, but damn they were at each others throats and he was stalking her. Anyway, she asked me my number and i gave it to her. She called we hooked up and hung out and chilled you know. She told me that she wasnt with her ex anymore but she was actully living with him and doin me and him. Guess shes a slut.
2006-08-25 07:34:43 · 6 answers · asked by tim s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tim. Tim. Tim. You know what time it is. It's all on you. Let me bring YOU up to speed. She doesn't care about you because if she did, she wouldn't blow you off. You were her spare tire. She only used you when her good tire blew out. She rode on you until she got her good tire patched up and then she replaced you with her old tire. You're disposable. Evidently, she is caught up in an unhealthy, unhappy relationship but that's not your problem. She is putting you smack in the middle of some mess. When the sh*t hits the fan, she'll probably tell her boyfriend that you are stalking her. She's not a respectful, honest, or kind female. She's poison. Cut your losses and get the heck out of Dodge. Be glad that you didn't invest more time and energy into her. If you stay in this, she will only drag you deeper into her web of lies.
2006-08-25 09:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tim, I think that I would back WAY off for now, no matter how "hot" she is. This sounds like a lot of trouble, for a little bit of pleasure, and something you are well without. For her reasons, (that you will probably never know...), she is choosing to stay in that environment. You provided an outlet from her boyfriend, and yet, it was still there, as you stated that they argued on the phone the whole time. Is this really what you want from a relationship? Having someone, and an "uninvited guest" all the time? That is what it would be, trust me. Do yourself a favor. Admire her from a distance, and keep it at that: A DISTANCE. You do not need to be involved in her troubles, and trust me, you would be, especially if "HE" finds out. You need to find someone who is totally free, totally in to you, and in that, YOU will be truly happy. Best of luck.
2006-08-25 07:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by Michael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's a skank, she only pretends to care about you because she knows how you feel about her. She craves attention, which is why she has the stalker boyfriend. Ditch her
2006-08-25 07:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by The Drake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be correct, she is a ****. She's playing with you, have fun, but don't get too emotionally involved, no good can come of it.
2006-08-25 07:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've wasted a year and a half confused over that? poor you - move on.
2006-08-25 07:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by livetall1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guessed right!
2006-08-25 07:46:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋